吃得开 (chī dé kāi)
Literally meaning 'to eat well', this term describes someone who is popular or well-liked in social contexts. It often refers to those who have good social networks or connections.
She is well-liked in the circle and very popular.
This section of the Chinese Slang Dictionary focuses on Love & Friends slang. Each entry includes the Chinese characters (汉字), pinyin pronunciation with tone marks, an English translation, at least one example sentence showing real usage, and cultural context explaining where the term comes from and how it is used. Terms are sorted by community popularity. Browse the full list below or use the search bar to find a specific term.
Literally meaning 'to eat well', this term describes someone who is popular or well-liked in social contexts. It often refers to those who have good social networks or connections.
She is well-liked in the circle and very popular.
Translating to 'fairy of the mortal world,' this term describes someone who is exceptionally beautiful and charming. It's often used in a romantic context to compliment someone's ethereal beauty.
She is simply a fairy of the mortal world; she's so beautiful!
Translating to 'the dream is over', this term is used to describe the moment someone realizes a harsh reality or when an idealized situation comes to an end. It often carries a sense of disappointment.
The wonderful fantasy I just had is now feeling like a dream that’s over.
'Cold and aloof' describes someone who appears distant or unapproachable, often perceived as mysterious or attractive. It can be used to describe personalities that are hard to read.
She is always cold and aloof, making it hard for people to approach her.
Meaning 'affection paid for,' this term describes situations where genuine emotions or familial relationships seem to be transactional or influenced by financial factors.
In today’s society, the phenomenon of affection being paid for is becoming more apparent.
Translating to 'beautiful person with a kind heart', this term is used to describe someone who is not only physically attractive but also kind and compassionate. It emphasizes inner beauty as much as outer beauty.
She is truly a beautiful person with a kind heart; everyone likes her.
Ship a couple / OTP — CP stands for "couple pairing." 磕CP (kē CP) means to actively "ship" two people together — whether real celebrities, fictional characters, or even strangers online who seem compatible. A cornerst...
Their interaction is so sweet — I've started shipping them as a CP!
Literally meaning 'soul rescue', this phrase is used to express the act of helping someone regain their motivation or spirit, especially when they’re feeling down. It’s often associated with uplifting messages.
This song is really my soul rescue; after listening, my mood improved a lot.
Translating to 'feeling guilty or insecure', it describes a state of unease about one’s actions or thoughts, often used in humorous contexts.
I felt guilty after lying to him.
Translates to 'destined to be great.' This term is used to encourage someone, especially in difficult times, expressing the idea that they will eventually succeed.
Don't give up; you are destined to be great!
Literally 'silly roe deer,' this humorous term refers to someone who is naive or innocent, often used affectionately. It describes someone who is straightforward or lacks worldly wisdom.
He’s such a naive person; he doesn’t understand anything.
Literally meaning 'when drinking water, think of its source,' this idiom emphasizes the importance of gratitude and remembering the origins of one's benefits or opportunities. It's often used to encourage appreciation.
We should also remember our roots when we succeed and not forget those who helped us.
Translating to 'ruthlessly cutting ties,' this term emphasizes a strong decision to end any connection with someone, especially after betrayal or disappointment. It carries a serious tone.
He betrayed me, so I can only 'ruthlessly cut ties.'
Warm man — a man who is emotionally considerate, caring, and kind. After 雪山救狐狸, the man in the video was immediately called a 暖男 in comment sections — someone whose gentleness toward a small animal revealed his charac...
The guy who rescued that fox is such a warm man — I hope everything goes well for him.
Meaning 'the future is promising,' this term expresses hope and positivity about what lies ahead. It’s commonly used to encourage others or to express optimism.
Although there are difficulties now, I believe the future is promising.
Translating to 'everyone's darling,' this term describes someone who is irresistibly charming and attracts many admirers. It can be used for both genders and is often used in romantic contexts.
He is truly everyone's darling; everyone likes him.
Translating to 'little broken child', this term is often used affectionately to describe someone who is clumsy, naive, or endearing in a vulnerable way. It evokes a sense of cuteness despite imperfections.
Seeing how he does things, he's really a little broken child.
Meaning 'farewell,' this term is used to express goodbyes in various contexts, including relationships, friendships, or life changes. It’s often imbued with emotional weight.
At graduation, everyone was feeling the weight of farewell.
Translating to 'steady happiness', this phrase captures the essence of a stable, reliable, and lasting relationship or contentment in life. It emphasizes the value of enduring love or satisfaction.
I want to share a steady happiness with him.
Literally 'unable to find north', used to describe feeling lost or confused, often in the context of decision-making or direction in life.
I really feel lost during this time; I don't know how to face it.
Meaning 'very circle fan', this phrase describes being impressed or captivated by something or someone, leading one to become a fan. It expresses enthusiasm and admiration.
This song is really captivating and made me fall in love with her.
Translating to 'Love Apartment', this phrase refers to a popular Chinese TV series that portrays young adults living in an apartment complex, focusing on their romantic and humorous interactions. It’s often used to de...
Our group of friends is just like the characters in 'Love Apartment'.
Literally 'little apprentice,' this affectionate term is used to refer to someone who is learning from a mentor. It's often used to express a nurturing or guiding relationship.
I see him as my little apprentice, teaching him many things.
This endearing term literally means 'husband in heaven' and is used humorously to refer to a beloved celebrity or fictional character as if he were a person's true partner. It reflects a playful attachment to idealize...
This actor is so handsome; he is truly my husband in heaven.
Translating to 'be oneself,' this term encourages authenticity and self-expression, particularly in a society that often pressures conformity. It promotes staying true to one’s identity.
We should be a little braver and be ourselves.
This term translates to 'confession balloon,' and it symbolizes romantic feelings or intentions, often used in the context of proposing or expressing love. The imagery evokes a sense of whimsy and romance.
His confession balloon moved me deeply.
Literally 'little cloud crane,' this term is a cute designation for someone who appears gentle and serene. It’s often used to describe a person or character with a soft demeanor.
She’s like a little cloud crane, always making people feel relaxed.
Translating to 'reverse dating', this term humorously describes a dating approach where instead of pursuing a partner, individuals wait for others to approach them. It emphasizes a laid-back approach to romantic inter...
I choose reverse dating, hoping to meet someone sincere.
Translating to 'hardcore little angel', this term humorously describes someone who is both tough and caring. It reflects the ability to be strong while showing kindness.
Although she appears tough, she is a hardcore little angel at heart.
The term literally means 'tea egg,' a popular snack in China. However, it is used as a slang expression referring to someone who seems unremarkable or dull. Its humorous connotation often applies to people who lack pe...
He was just a tea egg at the party, with nothing to talk about.
Literally 'lower the temperature', this term is often used to indicate cooling down a heated situation or emotions. It can refer to relationships or conflicts that need to be calmed.
Their argument is too intense; it needs to cool down a bit.
Translating to 'super understanding,' used to express empathy or deep understanding, often emphasized in supportive contexts, like friendships or romantic relationships.
You really understand me on another level!
Meaning 'flirting with girls', this term describes playful romantic interactions, often in a light-hearted or humorous manner. It captures the excitement of dating culture.
He is always flirting with girls, and he has a way with words.
Translating to ‘psychology’, this term is often used in discussions to analyze people's behaviors and motivations, particularly online. It suggests a deeper understanding of social interactions.
We can use psychology to analyze this relationship.
To act with chivalry and uphold justice — the defining behavior of a wuxia hero who uses their power to help the weak and right wrongs. Used online to describe anyone who speaks up against injustice or helps a strange...
He confronted a scammer online to protect someone — truly acting with chivalry and justice.
Literally meaning 'to carry water,' this term refers to the act of mediating or supporting one party in a situation, particularly during conflicts or debates. It can imply being noncommittal and only providing support...
When my friends were arguing, I just carried water, hoping to keep the peace.
This phrase, meaning 'plastic sisters', refers to superficial friendships that lack depth or authenticity, often used in social commentary.
Their friendship is just plastic sisters, not worth trusting.
This poetic phrase translates to 'the autumn waters share a color with the endless sky', often used to express beauty and harmony in nature. It's used romantically to describe idyllic settings or feelings.
Watching the sunset on the beach gives me the feeling of beauty in harmony.
This term means 'party' and specifically refers to lively gatherings or parties, especially among young people. It's often associated with fun, celebration, and socializing.
We're going to a party this weekend!
Literally 'giving someone a rose,' this phrase conveys the idea that by doing good deeds or sharing positive experiences, one indirectly benefits oneself. It's used to promote kindness.
Giving someone a rose leaves a fragrance on your own hand; helping others can also make yourself happy.
Translating to 'powerful pampering,' this phrase is used to describe someone who is doted upon or spoiled by others due to their talents or abilities. It's often used in contexts related to relationships and friendships.
He is pampered in the team; everyone takes extra care of him.
Literally meaning 'sucking cats,' this term humorously describes the act of adoring or spending time with cats, often referencing the joy and comfort they bring. It reflects a deeper cultural appreciation for pets as ...
I spend time cuddling my cat every day; it’s so relaxing.
Literally meaning 'big-headed doll,' this term describes people who have an exaggerated sense of self or behave in an overly cute manner. It’s often used affectionately to criticize someone acting childish.
Stop acting like a big-headed doll.
To show off one's children, often on social media, reflecting pride and joy in parenting. It highlights a cultural tendency to share family moments online.
I often show off my child on social media, and my friends say my baby is very cute.
Translating to 'quietly waiting for flowers to bloom', this phrase embodies patience and the belief that good things will eventually come in life.
During this time, I choose to quietly wait for flowers to bloom and keep a relaxed mindset.
Translating to 'pretend', this term often describes the act of feigning or putting on a facade, particularly in social contexts. It's commonly used in relationship dialogues.
Don't pretend that you like this show.
This term, imitating the sound of a gentle pat, expresses affection and care, particularly towards pets or loved ones. It conveys warmth and is often used in casual conversations.
Good baby, pat pat.
Literally translating to 'naughty,' this term describes someone who is playful or mischievous in a light-hearted way. It’s often used affectionately, particularly towards children or pets.
This little dog is so naughty; it always runs around recklessly.
Translating to 'palm treasure,' this term is affectionately used to describe someone who is cherished or overly pampered, usually in a romantic or familial context. It conveys a sense of love and protectiveness.
She is my treasured one, and I will take good care of her.
Translating to 'love is supreme,' it expresses a philosophy where romantic love is placed above all other priorities, often leading to humorous or exaggerated situations.
He always puts love above everything else and doesn’t even want to work.
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