This section of the Chinese Slang Dictionary focuses on Love & Friends slang. Each entry includes the Chinese characters (汉字), pinyin pronunciation with tone marks, an English translation, at least one example sentence showing real usage, and cultural context explaining where the term comes from and how it is used. Terms are sorted by community popularity. Browse the full list below or use the search bar to find a specific term.
Love & Friends Slang Terms
Translates to 'treasure girl', this term is often used to describe a girl or woman who is considered special, full of unique qualities or talents. It's a compliment that highlights appreciation.
She is truly a treasure girl with countless talents.
Translating to 'fat tiger', this term humorously describes someone who is chubby but lovable, often used in a light-hearted manner. It implies affection and endearment.
My friend is really a 'fat tiger'; they are especially cute.
Translating to 'emotionally stable,' this phrase is often used to describe someone who remains calm and collected in various situations, but can also be sarcastically applied to someone who is clearly not stable.
He seems emotionally stable, but inside, he’s very anxious.
Translating to 'palm treasure,' this term is affectionately used to describe someone who is cherished or overly pampered, usually in a romantic or familial context. It conveys a sense of love and protectiveness.
She is my treasured one, and I will take good care of her.
This term translates to 'old mother,' often used humorously to describe someone who is protective or caring, especially in a way that feels overbearing.
I really feel like I've turned into an old mother, always worrying about my friends' affairs.
Means 'awkward flirting'. This term describes attempts at flirting that are clumsy or cringe-inducing, often resulting in an uncomfortable situation. It reflects a playful self-awareness about social interactions.
His awkward flirting skills really make people laugh and cry at the same time.
Translates to 'little penguin,' used affectionately to describe someone who is cute or bumbling, often in a playful context. It can also refer to someone small and lovable.
Look at that little penguin; it's just adorable!
Literally 'prodigal son', this term refers to someone who is carefree and enjoys life to the fullest, often without responsibilities. It's commonly used in a more humorous context to describe a young man who indulges ...
He's a prodigal son, always out having fun.
Literal translation means 'to emit light,' but in internet slang, it refers to someone shining or standing out due to their talents or personality. It's often used to compliment someone who excels in a particular area.
She really shines on stage!
Translating to 'love is supreme,' it expresses a philosophy where romantic love is placed above all other priorities, often leading to humorous or exaggerated situations.
He always puts love above everything else and doesn’t even want to work.
Translating to 'correct worldview', this term describes someone with a good set of morals or values, reflecting a positive character. It’s a compliment often given in discussions about behaviors and beliefs.
He's someone with a correct worldview, and it feels great to be around him.
Literally means 'worldly fine products.' It is used to describe someone or something that is exceptionally attractive or exquisite. This term often applies to fashion, lifestyle, or trendy people.
Her outfit today is truly a worldly fine product.
Meaning 'role model', this term is often used to refer to individuals who inspire others through their achievements or behavior. It emphasizes the value of exemplary figures in society.
He is a role model for many young people.
This term means 'short essay' and is often used to refer to informal or humorous posts that share personal experiences or opinions. It reflects a trendy format for storytelling on social media.
I wrote a short essay today about my travel stories.
Meaning 'change the way of living', this phrase encourages individuals to rethink their life choices and pursue different paths. It's often used in self-help contexts.
I decided to change my way of living and pursue my dreams.
To seek a mate; often used playfully in dating contexts, it refers to the act of looking for a romantic partner. It emphasizes the social dynamics of dating.
They’re all seeking mates online.
Short for 'supermodel', it is often used to describe someone who has model-like qualities, not only in appearance but also in their attitude or presence. It can also be used humorously or ironically.
The way she walks is simply supermodel level.
Translating to 'light of hope,' this term is used to describe anything that inspires optimism or positivity during tough times. It often refers to people, events, or ideas that uplift spirits.
In adversity, she has always been the light of hope for me.
Translating to 'big bowl drink', this term signifies a carefree and indulgent approach to life, especially in the context of celebrating with friends. It embodies a spirit of enjoyment and sociability.
Tonight we’ll drink heartily and return home satisfied.
Translating to 'lend me money,' this phrase is often used humorously among friends when someone is in a tight financial situation. While it can be literal, it is frequently used in a lighthearted manner.
I spent too much this month; lend me some money.
This term means 'downcast' or 'low-spirited' and is often used to describe feelings of sadness or disappointment. It can be used casually among friends to express mood.
I've been feeling a bit downcast due to work pressure lately.
Translating to 'let it be natural,' this phrase suggests taking things as they come and not forcing situations, promoting a relaxed approach to life.
When it comes to relationships, let it be natural; don't rush.
Literally 'I’ll take you to fly', this slang is used to express a sense of adventure or excitement, often in the context of experiencing new things with someone else. It can also imply uplifting someone’s spirit.
Travel with me, I’ll take you to fly!
Translating to 'number one fan,' this term is used to describe someone who is an enthusiastic supporter or admirer of a celebrity or trend, often engaging with their content passionately.
I’m his number one fan, following his updates every day.
Translating to 'group chat,' this term refers to conversations among multiple people on messaging apps. It reflects the social dynamics of online communication and community building.
We are discussing this topic in our group chat, and it feels very interesting.
Translates to 'stacking human pyramids', often used to refer to teamwork or joint efforts to achieve something together, usually in a fun and humorous context.
Our classmates always like to stack human pyramids; it’s very fun.
Ambiguous relationship - The unclear flirty stage between friends and dating.
They are flirty but not officially together.
Translating to 'twice-cooked pork,' this term is playfully used to refer to someone who returns to a previous situation, such as an ex-lover or an old job. It carries a humorous connotation.
Is he returning like twice-cooked pork? Will he get back with his ex?
Translating to 'pretend to be happy', this phrase is often used to describe the act of putting on a facade of happiness when one is not genuinely feeling it. It reflects societal pressures to appear content.
She always pretends to be happy, but in reality, she feels very lonely.
Translating to 'heart card,' this term is used to describe a person’s special someone or favorite brand that they are emotionally attached to. It connotes loyalty and affection.
She is the goddess in my heart card.
Meaning 'to part ways,' this term is used to describe the dissolution of a group or friendship, often accompanied by emotional weight. It can also denote the end of a collaboration in a lighter tone.
Our group is finally parting ways; I’m really going to miss it.
Silly sweet innocent - A naive but lovable person.
She is a silly sweet innocent, knows nothing.
Literally means 'velvet’, used to describe a soft or gentle quality, often in a romantic context. It signifies a smooth and pleasant experience.
This place feels as warm as velvet.
Translating to 'being abused', this slang term is often used humorously in discussions about relationships or scenarios where someone willingly endures hardship or emotional pain. It can also denote a particular taste...
I am such a masochist, always chasing those heart-wrenching dramas.
Referring to the 'Old Man under the Moon,' a deity responsible for love in Chinese mythology. In modern usage, it symbolizes fate or destiny in romantic relationships and is often invoked humorously in discussions abo...
I hope the Old Man under the Moon can bring my lover and me together.
Literally 'skipping class', this term is used to describe the act of intentionally missing classes or lectures. It often carries a connotation of rebellion among students.
I want to skip class today and go watch a movie.
This phrase translates to 'the most beautiful on the entire internet'. It is often used humorously or ironically to praise someone’s appearance or work, usually in a lighthearted or tongue-in-cheek manner.
Her photo today is truly the most beautiful on the entire internet.
Translating to 'shining moment', this term describes a specific time when someone achieves something remarkable or noteworthy. It conveys a sense of pride and celebration.
The graduation ceremony is a shining moment in my life.
Meaning 'treat oneself as a treasure,' this term promotes self-love and self-appreciation, encouraging individuals to value themselves highly and not settle for less.
We must treat ourselves as treasures to attract good relationships.
This phrase translates to 'not leaving, nor abandoning' and is often used in romantic contexts to express loyalty and commitment in a relationship. It embodies deep emotional connections and promises.
I will always be loyal to you and support you forever.
'Reconstructing oneself' describes the process of personal transformation and self-improvement. It implies a conscious effort to change one’s identity or habits for the better.
Recently, I’ve been working hard to reconstruct myself, hoping to become better.
This term translates to 'reverse chasing stars', meaning to support or become fans of someone who is not traditionally considered a celebrity. It's often used to celebrate everyday people or niche figures who gain pop...
I really like these reverse chase stars!
Translating to 'psychological counseling,' this term can be used informally in a joking context to refer to light-hearted advice or casual conversations that help alleviate stress.
Chatting with friends feels like psychological counseling.
This term literally means 'little white rabbit' and is often used metaphorically to describe someone innocent or naive, especially in romantic situations. It's frequently used endearingly.
She really is a little white rabbit; she easily believes what others say.
Literally 'sisterhood with drug-like properties,' this term refers to friends who share a close bond that feels intoxicating or euphoric. It highlights deep emotional connections among friends, often seen in youthful,...
Going out with my drug-like sisters is just so much fun.
Meaning 'hot pot restaurant', this term is often used not just literally but to refer to a gathering place for friends to enjoy communal meals. It represents shared experiences and social bonding.
We're going to the hot pot restaurant for a gathering this weekend; everyone is looking forward to it.
Translating to 'virtual couple,' this term refers to online relationships or partnerships that exist in digital spaces rather than in real life.
They are a virtual couple in the game, but they don't know each other in real life.
Meaning 'mom circle,' this term refers to a community or social group of mothers who share parenting experiences and advice online. It reflects the importance of peer support in parenting.
In the mom circle, everyone shares parenting experiences with each other.
Translating to 'seeing through the red dust', this idiom describes someone who has gained insight and clarity on life’s superficialities, often implying a philosophical or detached perspective.
After many experiences, he finally sees through the superficialities of life.
Literally meaning 'ugly rejection,' this is a humorous term used to decline offers or invitations in a light-hearted way, often implying that the offer is unappealing. It’s commonly used in dating and social contexts.
I can only decline his invitation in an ugly way.