This section of the Chinese Slang Dictionary focuses on Love & Friends slang. Each entry includes the Chinese characters (汉字), pinyin pronunciation with tone marks, an English translation, at least one example sentence showing real usage, and cultural context explaining where the term comes from and how it is used. Terms are sorted by community popularity. Browse the full list below or use the search bar to find a specific term.
Love & Friends Slang Terms
Translating to 'white, rich, and beautiful', this term refers to a stereotype of an ideal woman who is wealthy, attractive, and fair-skinned. It is often used to depict a specific social class in a humorous or critica...
She is truly a 'white, rich, and beautiful' woman, living a wonderful life.
Literally means 'gaslight.' It describes a situation when someone manipulates another to doubt their reality or perceptions. It's used in emotional abuse contexts.
In this relationship, I often feel like I’m being gaslighted.
Translating to 'group chat,' this term refers to conversations among multiple people on messaging apps. It reflects the social dynamics of online communication and community building.
We are discussing this topic in our group chat, and it feels very interesting.
This phrase translates to 'not leaving, nor abandoning' and is often used in romantic contexts to express loyalty and commitment in a relationship. It embodies deep emotional connections and promises.
I will always be loyal to you and support you forever.
Translating to 'pretend to be happy', this phrase is often used to describe the act of putting on a facade of happiness when one is not genuinely feeling it. It reflects societal pressures to appear content.
She always pretends to be happy, but in reality, she feels very lonely.
Translates to 'treasure girl', this term is often used to describe a girl or woman who is considered special, full of unique qualities or talents. It's a compliment that highlights appreciation.
She is truly a treasure girl with countless talents.
This term refers to public spaces where individuals gather to find potential marriage partners, often through family or friends. It highlights the traditional practice of matchmaking in modern contexts.
At the matchmaking corner in the park, I met many interesting people.
Translating to 'big pig hoof,' this humorous term usually refers to a clumsy or foolish man, often in a romantic context. It's typically used by women to describe their male counterparts in a light-hearted way.
Why are you late again, big pig hoof?
Translating to 'fat tiger', this term humorously describes someone who is chubby but lovable, often used in a light-hearted manner. It implies affection and endearment.
My friend is really a 'fat tiger'; they are especially cute.
Translates to 'little penguin,' used affectionately to describe someone who is cute or bumbling, often in a playful context. It can also refer to someone small and lovable.
Look at that little penguin; it's just adorable!
Translating to 'shining moment', this term describes a specific time when someone achieves something remarkable or noteworthy. It conveys a sense of pride and celebration.
The graduation ceremony is a shining moment in my life.
Translating to 'divorce cooling-off period,' this term describes the legally mandated waiting period before a couple can finalize a divorce, often used humorously in discussions about relationship struggles.
I think we need a divorce cooling-off period.
Meaning 'cheesy' or 'corny', this term is used to describe overly sentimental or sweet expressions that can evoke embarrassment. It conveys a humorous critique of excessive affection.
His sweet talk is so cheesy that it makes me want to laugh.
This term means 'downcast' or 'low-spirited' and is often used to describe feelings of sadness or disappointment. It can be used casually among friends to express mood.
I've been feeling a bit downcast due to work pressure lately.
Translating to 'powerful pampering,' this phrase is used to describe someone who is doted upon or spoiled by others due to their talents or abilities. It's often used in contexts related to relationships and friendships.
He is pampered in the team; everyone takes extra care of him.
Translation: 'old father,' this term is affectionately used by younger generations to denote a sense of paternal concern or nagging, often used humorously when discussing care or warnings.
Don't come home too late; I'm not your old father.
Translating to 'cheers', this term is used to toast drinks among friends or during celebrations, symbolizing good wishes and camaraderie. It reflects the culture of bonding over shared experiences.
During the party, everyone raised their glasses to toast, and the atmosphere was lively.
Translating to 'charm value', this term refers to an individual's appeal or charisma, often used in dating contexts. It’s a playful way to discuss someone’s attractiveness or likability.
He has a high charm value and always attracts a lot of attention.
Literally 'I’ll take you to fly', this slang is used to express a sense of adventure or excitement, often in the context of experiencing new things with someone else. It can also imply uplifting someone’s spirit.
Travel with me, I’ll take you to fly!
Translating to 'tea talk meeting,' this term is used to describe informal gatherings where people socialize and discuss various topics over tea.
We’re hosting a tea talk meeting this weekend; everyone is invited!
Literally 'skipping class', this term is used to describe the act of intentionally missing classes or lectures. It often carries a connotation of rebellion among students.
I want to skip class today and go watch a movie.
'Reconstructing oneself' describes the process of personal transformation and self-improvement. It implies a conscious effort to change one’s identity or habits for the better.
Recently, I’ve been working hard to reconstruct myself, hoping to become better.
Literally means 'chameleon.' It’s used to describe someone who easily adapts to different social situations or changes their opinions to fit in. The term can be used positively or negatively depending on context.
She is truly a chameleon, always saying different things to different people.
This term translates to 'reverse chasing stars', meaning to support or become fans of someone who is not traditionally considered a celebrity. It's often used to celebrate everyday people or niche figures who gain pop...
I really like these reverse chase stars!
Translating to 'emotional trash', this term is used to describe individuals who are overwhelmed by their emotions or are unable to manage their feelings effectively. It often carries a humorous, self-deprecating conno...
I've been such an emotional wreck lately; it’s really tough.
This term means 'little tease,' generally used to describe someone who flirts or teases in a playful manner, often without serious intentions.
She loves to tease others playfully; it's really fun.
Translating to 'dreaming back,' this term is used to express nostalgia for a past experience or feeling, often evoked by specific memories or triggers. It indicates a longing for simpler times.
Hearing this song brings me back to my university days.
Translating to 'especially sweet', this slang is often used to describe something or someone that is adorably charming or endearing, particularly in romantic contexts.
His actions are just especially sweet, making my heart flutter.
This term means 'making friends', reflecting the importance of social connections in modern life, particularly in apps and platforms designed for dating or friendship.
Making friends online has become very popular now.
Translates to 'highlight' or 'shining point.' This term is used to refer to a person's strengths or the most impressive aspects of something, often used in evaluations or discussions about talents.
Her shining points in the speech left a deep impression on everyone.
Meaning 'old soul,' this term describes someone who is considered wise or mature beyond their years. It is often used positively to highlight someone’s depth and insightfulness.
Although he is young, he is an old soul, thinking deeply about issues.
This phrase translates to 'looking very atmospheric,' used to describe someone who has a captivating presence or vibe, often with romantic implications.
That girl has a captivating vibe; I think she must be very special.
Translating to 'national husband', this term refers to a man who is widely adored by the public, often a celebrity or influencer whose appeal transcends normal fandom.
He is the national husband in the hearts of many.
This term means 'short essay' and is often used to refer to informal or humorous posts that share personal experiences or opinions. It reflects a trendy format for storytelling on social media.
I wrote a short essay today about my travel stories.
This term means 'substitute' and is often used to describe a person who is not the primary love interest or the one chosen, often humorously or in fandom contexts. It conveys feelings of unrequited love.
In this story, she is just his substitute.
Shipping couples - Being enthusiastic about romantic pairings, either real celebrities or fictional characters. 'CP' comes from 'coupling'.
I've been obsessively shipping this couple lately, they're so sweet!
Translating to 'social anxiety,' this term is used to describe the fear or anxiety surrounding social interactions. It's a growing topic of conversation in relation to mental health.
She feels social anxiety during gatherings and doesn't know what to do.
Translating to 'emotionally stable,' this phrase is often used to describe someone who remains calm and collected in various situations, but can also be sarcastically applied to someone who is clearly not stable.
He seems emotionally stable, but inside, he’s very anxious.
Meaning 'has a built-in filter', this term describes someone who appears particularly attractive or exceptional, often in photos or videos. It suggests they have an innate quality that enhances their appearance withou...
This young lady really has a built-in filter; she looks beautiful in the photos.
Meaning 'hot pot restaurant', this term is often used not just literally but to refer to a gathering place for friends to enjoy communal meals. It represents shared experiences and social bonding.
We're going to the hot pot restaurant for a gathering this weekend; everyone is looking forward to it.
Ambiguous relationship - The unclear flirty stage between friends and dating.
They are flirty but not officially together.
Meaning 'role model', this term is often used to refer to individuals who inspire others through their achievements or behavior. It emphasizes the value of exemplary figures in society.
He is a role model for many young people.
Translating to 'Little Brother Ma', this is a term used to refer to a well-known figure or influencer, often in the context of admiration. It indicates a familiar yet respectful form of address.
Little Brother Ma's new song is really nice.
Silly sweet innocent - A naive but lovable person.
She is a silly sweet innocent, knows nothing.
Translating to 'correct worldview', this term describes someone with a good set of morals or values, reflecting a positive character. It’s a compliment often given in discussions about behaviors and beliefs.
He's someone with a correct worldview, and it feels great to be around him.
Translating to 'cut off contact', this term describes the act of intentionally severing communication with someone, often used in the context of relationships or friendships. It embodies the choice to disengage from s...
I have cut off contact with him and no longer stay in touch.
Literally meaning 'to pay the bill,' this term is commonly used when dining out, often carrying an implication of who should take responsibility for payment in social gatherings.
Let me treat you to dinner today; I’ll pay the bill.
Translating to 'sense of possession,' this term expresses the feeling of ownership or attachment to something, often used in relationships or fandom contexts.
I feel a strong sense of possession, thinking this idol belongs to me.
Little sister - Term for an attractive young woman.
Who is this pretty lady?
This term means 'to walk with heart,' referring to actions or words that are sincere and heartfelt. It's often used to describe genuine expressions in conversations.
This song is truly heartfelt; it moves me.