This section of the Chinese Slang Dictionary focuses on Love & Friends slang. Each entry includes the Chinese characters (汉字), pinyin pronunciation with tone marks, an English translation, at least one example sentence showing real usage, and cultural context explaining where the term comes from and how it is used. Terms are sorted by community popularity. Browse the full list below or use the search bar to find a specific term.
Translating to 'little spring,' this term is used to describe the feeling of warmth and positivity during tough times, often when someone finds joy in small things amidst challenges.
In this cold winter, she brought a sense of little spring.
Ambiguous relationship - The unclear flirty stage between friends and dating.
They are flirty but not officially together.
Translating to 'emotionally stable,' this phrase is often used to describe someone who remains calm and collected in various situations, but can also be sarcastically applied to someone who is clearly not stable.
He seems emotionally stable, but inside, he’s very anxious.
Translating to 'clenched fist,' this term represents a gesture of determination or solidarity, often shared among friends or online communities to encourage each other. It symbolizes strength in unity.
Let’s cheer on together and face challenges with strength!
I'm dead (from cuteness / shock / emotion) — abbreviation of 啊我死了 (ā wǒ sǐ le). Used when something is so cute, beautiful, or emotionally overwhelming that you "die" from it. The Chinese equivalent of "I'm deceased."
Saw their couple photo — AWSL, I'm dead, it's too sweet!
Literally meaning 'a forcibly twisted melon,' this slang is used to describe something that is unnatural or forced, often in relationships or situations. It's a way to say that a forced outcome is not genuine.
A forcibly twisted melon isn't sweet, and this relationship is the same.
Translating to 'Love Apartment', this phrase refers to a popular Chinese TV series that portrays young adults living in an apartment complex, focusing on their romantic and humorous interactions. It’s often used to de...
Our group of friends is just like the characters in 'Love Apartment'.
Translating to 'correct worldview', this term describes someone with a good set of morals or values, reflecting a positive character. It’s a compliment often given in discussions about behaviors and beliefs.
He's someone with a correct worldview, and it feels great to be around him.
Meaning 'fate' or 'destiny,' this term is often used in the context of relationships and connections between people. It implies that certain encounters are predestined and beyond one's control.
It's truly fate that we could meet.
Translating to 'shining moment', this term describes a specific time when someone achieves something remarkable or noteworthy. It conveys a sense of pride and celebration.
The graduation ceremony is a shining moment in my life.
This term translates to 'breakup fee' and humorously refers to the idea that someone should be compensated after a relationship ends, reflecting a tongue-in-cheek view of modern relationships.
He actually mentioned a breakup fee; it's so funny.
Meaning 'casual but not random,' this phrase emphasizes a relaxed attitude while maintaining some level of intentionality. It reflects a balance between flexibility and purpose.
I like a casual but intentional style when it comes to dating.
Translating to 'being abused', this slang term is often used humorously in discussions about relationships or scenarios where someone willingly endures hardship or emotional pain. It can also denote a particular taste...
I am such a masochist, always chasing those heart-wrenching dramas.
Literal translation means 'to emit light,' but in internet slang, it refers to someone shining or standing out due to their talents or personality. It's often used to compliment someone who excels in a particular area.
She really shines on stage!
Translating to 'lend me money,' this phrase is often used humorously among friends when someone is in a tight financial situation. While it can be literal, it is frequently used in a lighthearted manner.
I spent too much this month; lend me some money.
Literally 'skipping class', this term is used to describe the act of intentionally missing classes or lectures. It often carries a connotation of rebellion among students.
I want to skip class today and go watch a movie.
Translating to 'emotional trash', this term is used to describe individuals who are overwhelmed by their emotions or are unable to manage their feelings effectively. It often carries a humorous, self-deprecating conno...
I've been such an emotional wreck lately; it’s really tough.
Translates to 'highlight' or 'shining point.' This term is used to refer to a person's strengths or the most impressive aspects of something, often used in evaluations or discussions about talents.
Her shining points in the speech left a deep impression on everyone.
Literally meaning 'to pay the bill,' this term is commonly used when dining out, often carrying an implication of who should take responsibility for payment in social gatherings.
Let me treat you to dinner today; I’ll pay the bill.
Translating to 'divorce cooling-off period,' this term describes the legally mandated waiting period before a couple can finalize a divorce, often used humorously in discussions about relationship struggles.
I think we need a divorce cooling-off period.
Short for 'supermodel', it is often used to describe someone who has model-like qualities, not only in appearance but also in their attitude or presence. It can also be used humorously or ironically.
The way she walks is simply supermodel level.
Translating to 'national husband', this term refers to a man who is widely adored by the public, often a celebrity or influencer whose appeal transcends normal fandom.
He is the national husband in the hearts of many.
Shipping couples - Being enthusiastic about romantic pairings, either real celebrities or fictional characters. 'CP' comes from 'coupling'.
I've been obsessively shipping this couple lately, they're so sweet!
This phrase translates to 'hard mouth soft heart,' referring to someone who might appear tough or unsympathetic outwardly but is genuinely kind and caring deep down. It describes a common emotional duality.
He looks cool, but actually he is a hard mouth soft heart person.
Meaning 'has a built-in filter', this term describes someone who appears particularly attractive or exceptional, often in photos or videos. It suggests they have an innate quality that enhances their appearance withou...
This young lady really has a built-in filter; she looks beautiful in the photos.
Translating to 'truthful words,' this term is typically used to express absolute honesty or sincerity in a conversation, often leading to deeper discussions.
Come on, it's time for truthful words!
This term refers to public spaces where individuals gather to find potential marriage partners, often through family or friends. It highlights the traditional practice of matchmaking in modern contexts.
At the matchmaking corner in the park, I met many interesting people.
Referring to a symbol of selflessness and altruism, this term invokes the legacy of Lei Feng, a figure in Chinese culture known for his dedication to helping others. It's often used to describe charitable behavior.
She is like Lei Feng, always helping those in need.
To act with chivalry and uphold justice — the defining behavior of a wuxia hero who uses their power to help the weak and right wrongs. Used online to describe anyone who speaks up against injustice or helps a strange...
He confronted a scammer online to protect someone — truly acting with chivalry and justice.
This term translates to 'opposite sexes attract' and is used to describe romantic attraction between different genders. It's often mentioned in dating conversations and reflects common beliefs about attraction.
Opposite sexes attract is a part of human emotions.
Translates to 'online redemption,' referring to the idea of finding healing or solace through online communities or interactions. It's often used in a positive context, promoting the community aspect of the internet.
On this forum, I've found online redemption and like-minded friends.
Translating to 'seeing through the red dust', this idiom describes someone who has gained insight and clarity on life’s superficialities, often implying a philosophical or detached perspective.
After many experiences, he finally sees through the superficialities of life.
Translating to 'rollercoaster of looks', this term is used to describe fluctuations in someone's attractiveness over time or circumstances. It can be humorous or critical.
This celebrity's attractiveness is truly a rollercoaster; sometimes they look great, sometimes they don’t.
Literally means 'bubbling up', this slang refers to someone who suddenly appears in a conversation or a thread, often after a long absence. It implies they are finally engaging again.
Haven't seen you bubble up in so long; what’s going on?
Translating to 'sense of possession,' this term expresses the feeling of ownership or attachment to something, often used in relationships or fandom contexts.
I feel a strong sense of possession, thinking this idol belongs to me.
Translating to 'white, rich, and beautiful', this term refers to a stereotype of an ideal woman who is wealthy, attractive, and fair-skinned. It is often used to depict a specific social class in a humorous or critica...
She is truly a 'white, rich, and beautiful' woman, living a wonderful life.
This term translates to 'reverse chasing stars', meaning to support or become fans of someone who is not traditionally considered a celebrity. It's often used to celebrate everyday people or niche figures who gain pop...
I really like these reverse chase stars!
Literally means 'gaslight.' It describes a situation when someone manipulates another to doubt their reality or perceptions. It's used in emotional abuse contexts.
In this relationship, I often feel like I’m being gaslighted.
Literally meaning 'locked dead,' this term describes a state of being unable to move on, especially in relationships or emotional circumstances, often humorously. It indicates that someone is stuck in their feelings o...
His feelings for her are locked dead; he can't move on.
Meaning 'with sincere effort', this phrase is used to recognize the effort someone has put into a task or relationship, often implying that their intentions were genuine.
He has sincerely put in effort for me; I'm very touched.
This term means 'to be endearing' or 'charming,' often used to describe someone who has a pleasant or likable personality. It conveys warmth and affection.
This child is truly endearing.
Translating to 'social barriers', this term refers to the experience of difficulty in social interactions, often humorously. It can reflect nervousness or awkwardness in social settings.
He always feels social barriers; he gets very nervous at gatherings.
Translating to 'impressive, my brother,' this phrase is often used to compliment someone on their achievements or skills. It carries a tone of admiration, often in a humorous context.
Your performance today was impressive, my brother; so awesome!
Literally means 'worldly fine products.' It is used to describe someone or something that is exceptionally attractive or exquisite. This term often applies to fashion, lifestyle, or trendy people.
Her outfit today is truly a worldly fine product.
Translating to 'emotional intelligence', it refers to the ability to understand and manage emotions in oneself and others. It’s used to highlight the importance of interpersonal skills in social interactions.
Her 'emotional intelligence' is really high, and she can handle interpersonal relationships well.
Literally meaning 'giggling monster', this term describes someone who is extremely cute or silly, often used in a playful or teasing manner. It reflects affection and light-heartedness.
You’re such a giggling monster, making everyone laugh out loud.
This phrase translates to 'looking very atmospheric,' used to describe someone who has a captivating presence or vibe, often with romantic implications.
That girl has a captivating vibe; I think she must be very special.
This term means 'party' and specifically refers to lively gatherings or parties, especially among young people. It's often associated with fun, celebration, and socializing.
We're going to a party this weekend!
Translating to 'especially sweet', this slang is often used to describe something or someone that is adorably charming or endearing, particularly in romantic contexts.
His actions are just especially sweet, making my heart flutter.
Translating to 'powerful pampering,' this phrase is used to describe someone who is doted upon or spoiled by others due to their talents or abilities. It's often used in contexts related to relationships and friendships.
He is pampered in the team; everyone takes extra care of him.
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