This section of the Chinese Slang Dictionary focuses on Love & Friends slang. Each entry includes the Chinese characters (汉字), pinyin pronunciation with tone marks, an English translation, at least one example sentence showing real usage, and cultural context explaining where the term comes from and how it is used. Terms are sorted by community popularity. Browse the full list below or use the search bar to find a specific term.
Love & Friends Slang Terms
Literally meaning 'little fresh meat', this term is used to describe young and handsome male celebrities or idols. It conveys admiration and sometimes envy regarding youthful attractiveness.
This young idol is very popular in the TV series.
Translating to 'Worry Relief Grocery Store,' this term comes from a popular novel and symbolizes a place where people can find solutions to their problems or share their worries. It's rooted in the concept of communit...
My friend is like a 'worry relief grocery store'; they always give me good advice.
Literally means 'younger man'. It refers to younger males in romantic contexts, often highlighting a relationship dynamic where the woman is older. It's used in conversations around dating preferences.
She prefers younger men, finding it more attractive.
This term, imitating the sound of a gentle pat, expresses affection and care, particularly towards pets or loved ones. It conveys warmth and is often used in casual conversations.
Good baby, pat pat.
Warm man — a man who is emotionally considerate, caring, and kind. After 雪山救狐狸, the man in the video was immediately called a 暖男 in comment sections — someone whose gentleness toward a small animal revealed his charac...
The guy who rescued that fox is such a warm man — I hope everything goes well for him.
Meaning 'to part ways,' this term is used to describe the dissolution of a group or friendship, often accompanied by emotional weight. It can also denote the end of a collaboration in a lighter tone.
Our group is finally parting ways; I’m really going to miss it.
Literally meaning 'to feed', this term is used in the context of fans sending gifts or support to their idols or content creators, akin to showing affection.
I just sent a gift to my favorite blogger; I'm looking forward to her response.
Translating to 'varied ways of chasing stars', this term describes the multi-faceted ways fans express their admiration for celebrities, often involving creative and dedicated efforts.
Her varied ways of chasing stars are truly admirable.
Chivalry and righteousness — the moral code of the wuxia hero: standing up for the weak, keeping promises, and prioritizing justice over personal gain. Used online to genuinely praise someone's selfless, principled be...
He helped me so much without asking anything in return — truly the spirit of chivalry.
Translating to 'lend me money,' this phrase is often used humorously among friends when someone is in a tight financial situation. While it can be literal, it is frequently used in a lighthearted manner.
I spent too much this month; lend me some money.
Translating to 'let it be natural,' this phrase suggests taking things as they come and not forcing situations, promoting a relaxed approach to life.
When it comes to relationships, let it be natural; don't rush.
This term describes someone who is a bit scatterbrained or forgetful. It carries a lighthearted and affectionate connotation, often used among friends.
You're such a scatterbrain, always forgetting things at home.
Spare tire / Backup - A backup romantic option.
I do not want to be his backup.
This term means 'vast' or 'expansive' and is often used to describe wide-ranging interests or experiences, especially in conversation. It conveys a sense of openness and variety.
His perspective is very vast; he has seen many different worlds.
Short for 'supermodel', it is often used to describe someone who has model-like qualities, not only in appearance but also in their attitude or presence. It can also be used humorously or ironically.
The way she walks is simply supermodel level.
Translating to 'sunshine boy', this term describes a cheerful, optimistic young man full of energy and positivity. It is often associated with attractive young men who embody a bright and sunny disposition.
He always looks like a sunshine boy, which makes him very likable.
Translating to 'blue-faced confidant', this term refers to a male friend with whom a woman feels a close emotional connection but with no romantic interest. It emphasizes platonic relationships.
She has a great relationship with her blue-faced confidant; they always share secrets.
Translating to 'little cookie,' this term is used affectionately to refer to someone cute or endearing, often in a playful context. It can imply a sense of care or adoration.
You are such a little cookie; too cute!
The benevolent have no enemies — a Confucian ideal woven through wuxia narratives, arguing that true moral greatness makes you invincible because no one can truly oppose a just person. Used online both sincerely and i...
He is kind to everyone — the benevolent have no enemies, and everyone loves him.
Translating to 'celestial partner,' this term refers to someone who is exceptionally supportive or perfect to collaborate with in business or friendships. It conveys admiration for someone's qualities.
She is truly my celestial partner; we work together seamlessly.
Literally meaning 'tea friends', this term refers to people who bond over drinking tea, often used in social settings to describe a casual gathering for tea enthusiasts.
We are tea friends and meet once a week.
Translating to 'clenched fist,' this term represents a gesture of determination or solidarity, often shared among friends or online communities to encourage each other. It symbolizes strength in unity.
Let’s cheer on together and face challenges with strength!
Literally 'turning back grass,' this term refers to the act of returning to a previous situation or relationship, often with a sense of regret. It's similar to the English phrase 'going back to old habits.'
He always goes back to his old habits; it’s really frustrating.
This term means 'treasure at home' and is often used to refer affectionately to pets, children, or items that hold sentimental value. It reflects a nurturing attitude and the importance of family bonds.
My cat is my treasure at home; it keeps me company every day.
Means 'to be sweetened,' used to express being overwhelmed or pleasantly surprised by something adorable or romantic. It conveys the feelings of warmth and joy in relationships.
Seeing their interactions, I was overwhelmed by sweetness, it was really happy.
This term translates to 'breakup fee' and humorously refers to the idea that someone should be compensated after a relationship ends, reflecting a tongue-in-cheek view of modern relationships.
He actually mentioned a breakup fee; it's so funny.
This term literally means 'to plant rice seedlings,' but in slang, it refers to someone who is overly eager or desperate for attention, often in romantic or social contexts.
At the party, his performance was a bit desperate, making it awkward.
Literally 'prodigal son', this term refers to someone who is carefree and enjoys life to the fullest, often without responsibilities. It's commonly used in a more humorous context to describe a young man who indulges ...
He's a prodigal son, always out having fun.
This term translates to 'opposite sexes attract' and is used to describe romantic attraction between different genders. It's often mentioned in dating conversations and reflects common beliefs about attraction.
Opposite sexes attract is a part of human emotions.
Meaning 'sense of belonging', this term describes the feeling of being accepted and included in a group. It highlights the emotional need for community and connection.
Finding a sense of belonging is an important need for modern people.
Translating to 'cow head,' this term refers to someone who acts stubbornly or is unwilling to change their mind, often in a humorous or lighthearted context. It can describe strong-willed personalities.
He really is a stubborn person; he won't listen to anyone.
Referring to a symbol of selflessness and altruism, this term invokes the legacy of Lei Feng, a figure in Chinese culture known for his dedication to helping others. It's often used to describe charitable behavior.
She is like Lei Feng, always helping those in need.
Translating to 'breaking the ice in social situations', this term refers to techniques or phrases used to ease tension and start conversations among strangers. It promotes social interaction and is useful in networking.
Breaking the ice in social situations is very important to blend into this circle.
Translates to 'stacking human pyramids', often used to refer to teamwork or joint efforts to achieve something together, usually in a fun and humorous context.
Our classmates always like to stack human pyramids; it’s very fun.
Translating to 'big bowl drink', this term signifies a carefree and indulgent approach to life, especially in the context of celebrating with friends. It embodies a spirit of enjoyment and sociability.
Tonight we’ll drink heartily and return home satisfied.
Translating to 'number one fan,' this term is used to describe someone who is an enthusiastic supporter or admirer of a celebrity or trend, often engaging with their content passionately.
I’m his number one fan, following his updates every day.
This term translates to 'old mother,' often used humorously to describe someone who is protective or caring, especially in a way that feels overbearing.
I really feel like I've turned into an old mother, always worrying about my friends' affairs.
Translating to 'start socializing,' this term refers to the act of becoming more active in social interactions, especially for those who are usually quiet or reserved. It reflects a desire to connect more with others.
I've decided to start socializing and try to make new friends.
While it literally means 'Capricorn,' within internet slang, it refers to the stereotypical traits associated with Capricorns, like being hardworking or serious. Often used in a playful context when discussing persona...
He really is a Capricorn, a workaholic.
Literally means 'goodbye, mom'. It humorously suggests that someone is leaving for an adventure or to pursue something exciting, often implying that they are going all out.
After the exam, I'm going to say goodbye, mom, and go travel!
Seven-colored cloud of fortune — from the famous A Chinese Odyssey speech about waiting for a hero who arrives on such a cloud. Used to describe an idealized romantic arrival, an impossibly perfect expectation, or sar...
Waiting for him to come find you? Are you waiting for him to arrive on a seven-colored cloud?
Translating to 'slow burn,' this term describes people or relationships that take time to develop and deepen. It's often a positive characterization of gradual and meaningful connections.
Our relationship is a slow burn, but very real.
Translating to 'powerful pampering,' this phrase is used to describe someone who is doted upon or spoiled by others due to their talents or abilities. It's often used in contexts related to relationships and friendships.
He is pampered in the team; everyone takes extra care of him.
Literally meaning 'when drinking water, think of its source,' this idiom emphasizes the importance of gratitude and remembering the origins of one's benefits or opportunities. It's often used to encourage appreciation.
We should also remember our roots when we succeed and not forget those who helped us.
Literal translation means 'to emit light,' but in internet slang, it refers to someone shining or standing out due to their talents or personality. It's often used to compliment someone who excels in a particular area.
She really shines on stage!
Meaning 'fate' or 'destiny,' this term is often used in the context of relationships and connections between people. It implies that certain encounters are predestined and beyond one's control.
It's truly fate that we could meet.
Translation: 'old father,' this term is affectionately used by younger generations to denote a sense of paternal concern or nagging, often used humorously when discussing care or warnings.
Don't come home too late; I'm not your old father.
Meaning 'mom circle,' this term refers to a community or social group of mothers who share parenting experiences and advice online. It reflects the importance of peer support in parenting.
In the mom circle, everyone shares parenting experiences with each other.
Literally 'I’ll take you to fly', this slang is used to express a sense of adventure or excitement, often in the context of experiencing new things with someone else. It can also imply uplifting someone’s spirit.
Travel with me, I’ll take you to fly!
Literally means 'chameleon.' It’s used to describe someone who easily adapts to different social situations or changes their opinions to fit in. The term can be used positively or negatively depending on context.
She is truly a chameleon, always saying different things to different people.