This section of the Chinese Slang Dictionary focuses on Love & Friends slang. Each entry includes the Chinese characters (汉字), pinyin pronunciation with tone marks, an English translation, at least one example sentence showing real usage, and cultural context explaining where the term comes from and how it is used. Terms are sorted by community popularity. Browse the full list below or use the search bar to find a specific term.
Love & Friends Slang Terms
Translating to 'stomach ache', this term is often used jokingly to indicate that someone is feeling emotional pain or discomfort due to relationships or social situations. It conveys humor in vulnerability.
He broke up with his girlfriend; it really hurts emotionally.
Translates to 'earthly poetry,' this term is used to describe beautiful moments or experiences that feel poetic and memorable in ordinary life. It emphasizes finding artistry in daily experiences.
This moment is truly earthly poetry, making it unforgettable.
This term refers to socializing or attending gatherings for professional or obligatory reasons. It often carries a connotation of being tiresome or obligatory rather than enjoyable.
I don’t want to attend this social obligation; it’s just too boring.
Translating to 'heart-shaking dictionary,' this term refers to phrases or words that evoke strong emotional responses, often used in the context of romantic feelings. It reflects the diversity of expressions in love.
The lyrics of this song are like a heart-shaking dictionary, moving me deeply.
Literally meaning 'tea,' this term is a slang way to refer to gossip or scandalous news. When someone says 'have you had your tea?', it implies discussing juicy stories or rumors.
Have you heard? We're going to have some tea to talk about the new gossip.
Translating to 'frozen age', this term describes the condition of appearing youthful regardless of one's actual age, often associated with beauty and health.
She is truly a frozen-age goddess; she doesn’t look old at all.
Translating to 'delicate girl,' this term describes women who take great care in their appearance, lifestyle, and personal tastes. It often implies a focus on aesthetics and self-care.
She is truly a delicate girl; every detail in her life is well-considered.
Meaning 'Buddhist-style idol chasing,' this term describes fans who support their idols in a relaxed and non-competitive manner. They enjoy their fandom without unhealthy obsession or pressure.
I follow my idols in a Buddhist way; I just support casually.
Translates to 'emotional value,' it refers to the worth of an experience or event based on the feelings it elicits rather than material or practical value. It’s used to indicate sentimental worth.
This photo holds a lot of emotional value for me.
Translating to 'internet friend', this term describes someone you connect with online but may not have met in person. It reflects the impact of online relationships in modern life.
I share my life with my internet friends.
Translating to 'heartbroken', this term is often used in a lighter, more humorous context than its literal meaning. It's frequently used in memes and online posts to express over-the-top reactions or disappointments.
Seeing my idol leave the industry broke my heart.
Translates to 'emotions or feelings,' this term is often used in the context of discussing relationships, love, and emotional experiences. It reflects a focus on the importance of emotional connectivity.
Emotional connection is very important in a relationship.
Meaning 'small short legs,' it's often used affectionately to refer to pets or friends who are seen as cute but not very agile. It can also describe romantic partners humorously.
My dog is really a little short-legged; it runs too slowly.
Translating to 'little awkwardness', this term is used humorously to describe mildly embarrassing situations that are not too serious. It's often invoked when people find themselves in funny or awkward moments.
It's a little awkward to say the wrong thing when meeting an old friend.
Translating to 'vinegar jar,' this term describes someone who is jealous, especially in romantic contexts. It's a playful way to characterize possessiveness over a partner.
He's really a vinegar jar; he gets upset every time he sees me talking to other guys.
This term often refers to someone who is dreamily beautiful or ethereal, typically used in a romantic context. It derives from a character in a famous Chinese film, symbolizing idealized beauty.
She is as beautiful as Zixia, captivating everyone.
Literally meaning 'to release or set free,' this term is often used to describe letting oneself enjoy life without constraints. It embodies a carefree spirit and a desire to break free from societal pressures.
This weekend, I want to really let myself enjoy life and relax by the beach.
Translating to 'loneliness syndrome', this term humorously refers to feeling lonely or isolated, especially in a social context. It suggests a humorous acceptance of one’s state of being alone.
Staying home for too long always leads to loneliness syndrome.
Translating to 'single aristocrat,' this term humorously describes someone who is single and enjoys the freedom and luxuries of single life, implying they are better off alone.
As a single aristocrat, I enjoy living alone.
Translating to 'sunshine homebody,' this term describes a man who enjoys staying at home while maintaining a positive and cheerful attitude. It combines the notions of introversion with a bright outlook on life.
He is a sunshine homebody; even though he rarely goes out, he always wears a smile.
Translating to 'calculating girl,' this term refers to women who are perceived as being manipulative or strategic in social situations, often in relationships or friendships. It carries a negative connotation, implyin...
She is referred to as a calculating girl in the circle; everyone knows her tactics.
This term means 'vitality' and refers to a lively, energetic disposition. It’s commonly used to describe cheerful and upbeat personalities.
She is truly a person full of vitality.
This term mimics the sound of clapping or slapping and is often used in playful contexts, particularly to describe relationships or sexual innuendos. It's a humorous way to refer to physical intimacy.
They were intimate last night again, which is really enviable.
Translates to 'always sweet.' This term is often used to describe a romantic relationship that remains lovely and affectionate over time, used frequently in discussions about love and dating.
Their love story is always sweet and enviable.
Literally 'group pet,' this term is used to describe someone who is adored by a group, often in a friend circle or fandom. It reflects the dynamic of being universally liked.
He is the group pet of our class; everyone likes him a lot.
Translates to 'happy to part ways.' This term is often used humorously to express relief or joy at the end of an exhausting relationship or interaction.
After this quarrel, I truly feel happy to part ways.
This slang means 'to flirt' and is often used to describe playful or charming behavior towards someone, typically in a romantic context.
He flirts with me every day; it's really boring.
Refers to a strong, influential woman, specifically referencing Dong Mingzhu, a famous Chinese businesswoman. It symbolizes female empowerment and leadership.
She is a Dong Mingzhu-style woman, balancing her career and family very well.
Translating to 'maintain mystery', this term refers to the act of keeping some aspects of oneself or one's life hidden, often to create allure or intrigue. It signifies a strategic approach to social interactions.
She always maintains mystery, making people want to know more about her.
Translating to 'one word makes it decided,' this term is used to seal an agreement or promise, often humorously binding friends to a commitment.
We will go to the movies at 3 PM; it's a deal.
Translating to 'three views' (worldview, values, and life view), this term is used to discuss one's fundamental beliefs and perspectives on life. It's often used when evaluating compatibility in relationships.
Our fundamental views don’t align; it might be hard to continue.
This term means 'cute' or 'adorable' and is often used to describe things that evoke a sense of cuteness or charm, particularly in a playful or endearing way.
This little cat is so adorable; who wouldn’t love it?
Translating to 'defeated dog,' this term describes someone who has failed in love or life, often used humorously to refer to single people or those experiencing romantic struggles.
I'm a defeated dog right now; I really hope to find a partner.
This term refers to a 'vibe group', a collection of people who come together to create or enhance a specific atmosphere in social situations. It’s often used in the context of gatherings and events.
Our gathering needs a vibe group to enhance the atmosphere.
This term means 'to dress up' or 'to adorn oneself'. It highlights the cultural emphasis on appearance, especially in social situations, and is often used in discussions about fashion or personal grooming.
Today, I've 'dressed up' particularly well, getting ready for the gathering.
Translating to 'fairy in the human world', this term is used to describe someone who is exceptionally beautiful or has an ethereal quality. It can be used affectionately in social media and among friends.
You’re really a fairy in the human world; everyone is drawn to your beauty.
Translating to 'empty window period', this slang refers to the time of being single between relationships. It carries an implication of uncertainty or transition.
I just went through an empty window period and want to find a partner now.
Meaning 'chat records,' this phrase is commonly used to refer to saved conversations on messaging apps. It highlights the importance of digital communication in modern relationships.
I saved our chat records.
Translating to 'iron friends,' this term refers to close and dependable friends. It conveys a sense of loyalty and trust among friends.
We are iron friends, and we support each other no matter what happens.
This phrase translates to 'lost but knows to return' and refers to someone who realizes their mistakes and chooses to correct their path. It often applies to self-improvement and personal growth.
After reflection, he finally realized his mistakes and chose to return.
Spreading dog food / PDA - Couples showing off their relationship, making singles jealous.
They are spreading dog food again, so sweet.
This phrase means 'a hundred yuan dining table', referring to gatherings where participants are expected to share the costs of meals, typically with modest budgets. It reflects a casual approach to socializing and din...
Let's go to the hundred yuan dining table tonight.
Literally means 'as promised', used when expectations set in conversation are not met. It often conveys disappointment or irony.
Didn’t you promise to come today?
Translates to 'so high', used to express excitement or exhilaration, especially in a fun or party atmosphere. It encapsulates the joy of living in the moment.
Today's gathering was so high; we had a great time.
This phrase means 'offline socializing', referring to interactions that happen in person rather than online. It highlights the importance of face-to-face connections in an increasingly digital age.
I believe offline socializing can bring people closer together.
This playful phrase originated from a viral video and is often used to cheer someone on, akin to saying 'go for it!' or 'you can do it!'. It conveys support and encouragement.
Go for it, you can do it!
Meaning 'younger partner', this term is applicable in romantic contexts where one party is younger than the other. It's often used to describe relationships where age differences spark interest or humor.
I like younger boys; I find them particularly charming.
Translating to 'single since birth,' it humorously denotes someone who has never been in a romantic relationship, often used lightheartedly.
I’ve been single since birth for twenty years.
Literally 'little milk dog', this term describes a younger man who is cute, affectionate, and often vulnerable, appealing to older women. It’s often used in dating contexts to denote someone playful and endearing.
He is really a little milk dog, always so gentle when chatting with girls.
Translating to 'ex-boyfriend,' this term refers specifically to a former romantic partner. It's often used in contexts involving relationship discussions or nostalgia.
I ran into my ex-boyfriend yesterday.