This section of the Chinese Slang Dictionary focuses on Love & Friends slang. Each entry includes the Chinese characters (汉字), pinyin pronunciation with tone marks, an English translation, at least one example sentence showing real usage, and cultural context explaining where the term comes from and how it is used. Terms are sorted by community popularity. Browse the full list below or use the search bar to find a specific term.
Love & Friends Slang Terms
Soul leaving the body describes a state of extreme excitement or joy where one feels disconnected from reality. It's often used humorously to express overwhelming feelings.
Upon hearing this good news, I felt like my soul left my body!
Translating to 'maintain mystery', this term refers to the act of keeping some aspects of oneself or one's life hidden, often to create allure or intrigue. It signifies a strategic approach to social interactions.
She always maintains mystery, making people want to know more about her.
This term means 'cute' or 'adorable' and is often used to describe things that evoke a sense of cuteness or charm, particularly in a playful or endearing way.
This little cat is so adorable; who wouldn’t love it?
'Life reversal' describes a dramatic turnaround in one’s life circumstances, often from negative to positive. It encapsulates that moment where everything changes for the better, filled with hope and potential.
This movie tells a story of a life reversal.
Translating to 'dislike' or 'find fault with,' this term is used to express disdain or contempt for something or someone. It often has a playful connotation but can be serious as well.
He always finds fault with my choices, which frustrates me.
Translating to 'reverse show of love', this term indicates a humorous or sarcastic way of expressing affection by pretending to be uninterested. It often creates comedic moments in conversation.
He likes to attract girls’ attention by using reverse show of love.
This phrase means 'a hundred yuan dining table', referring to gatherings where participants are expected to share the costs of meals, typically with modest budgets. It reflects a casual approach to socializing and din...
Let's go to the hundred yuan dining table tonight.
This simple term means 'to chat', but it’s commonly used in a context where there’s an expectation of casual, friendly conversation, often online or via messaging apps.
We can chat whenever we have time.
Translating to 'mom's faction', this term refers to people who are extremely supportive and protective, similar to how a mother would be. It’s often used in a playful context to characterize overly doting friends or f...
She always worries about me; she’s really a mom’s faction friend.
This phrase translates to 'lost but knows to return' and refers to someone who realizes their mistakes and chooses to correct their path. It often applies to self-improvement and personal growth.
After reflection, he finally realized his mistakes and chose to return.
Sea king / Player - Someone who dates many people simultaneously.
He is a player with many backups.
Translating to 'earthy love words', this term refers to cheesy or corny pickup lines and romantic phrases that are often humorous or cringeworthy.
His cheesy pickup lines made me laugh uncontrollably.
Literally meaning 'turning a page', this term is often used to describe moving on from a past event or experience. It suggests a desire to let go and start anew.
Let’s just turn the page on the past; the future is more important.
This playful phrase originated from a viral video and is often used to cheer someone on, akin to saying 'go for it!' or 'you can do it!'. It conveys support and encouragement.
Go for it, you can do it!
Translating to 'halo', this term refers to an aura or presence that someone has, often when they appear particularly charming or charismatic. It can also apply to brands with a strong positive image.
His aura is truly irresistible, attracting many people.
Translating to 'single since birth,' it humorously denotes someone who has never been in a romantic relationship, often used lightheartedly.
I’ve been single since birth for twenty years.
This term literally means 'gas station culture' and refers to friendships or communities that thrive on short, casual interactions rather than deep relationships. It's often used to describe online friendships that ar...
In this gas station culture era, it's hard for us to have deep friendships.
This term refers to socializing or attending gatherings for professional or obligatory reasons. It often carries a connotation of being tiresome or obligatory rather than enjoyable.
I don’t want to attend this social obligation; it’s just too boring.
Translating to 'plastic sisterhood', this term describes friendships among women that seem surface-level or insincere, often highlighting the superficiality of certain social relationships.
Their plastic sisterhood makes me feel quite helpless.
Refers to a strong, influential woman, specifically referencing Dong Mingzhu, a famous Chinese businesswoman. It symbolizes female empowerment and leadership.
She is a Dong Mingzhu-style woman, balancing her career and family very well.
Meaning 'chat records,' this phrase is commonly used to refer to saved conversations on messaging apps. It highlights the importance of digital communication in modern relationships.
I saved our chat records.
Literally means 'adorably cute.' It describes something or someone that is very cute or endearing. This term is often used in an affectionate context, especially among younger people.
This little dog is just adorably cute.
Translating to 'frozen age', this term describes the condition of appearing youthful regardless of one's actual age, often associated with beauty and health.
She is truly a frozen-age goddess; she doesn’t look old at all.
This phrase means 'pretending to be familiar' and is often used when people act as if they know someone well when they actually do not. It indicates a humorous social dynamic, especially in casual meetups.
At the gathering, some people pretended to be familiar, and it ended up being quite awkward.
Literally meaning 'to release or set free,' this term is often used to describe letting oneself enjoy life without constraints. It embodies a carefree spirit and a desire to break free from societal pressures.
This weekend, I want to really let myself enjoy life and relax by the beach.
Translating to 'full sky of stars,' this term is used to describe an overwhelming number of choices or options, often used in the context of dating apps or shopping. It conveys both excitement and confusion.
There are so many choices on this dating app, who should I choose?
Translating to 'social coldness', this term describes individuals who find social interactions draining or uncomfortable, often experiencing anxiety in social situations. It reflects a growing awareness of mental heal...
I always feel social coldness and dislike attending large gatherings.
Translates to 'hundred changes'; this term refers to someone or something versatile or adaptable, often praised for their ability to switch roles or styles gracefully.
Her dressing style is really versatile; she looks especially good today.
Translating to 'fairy in the human world', this term is used to describe someone who is exceptionally beautiful or has an ethereal quality. It can be used affectionately in social media and among friends.
You’re really a fairy in the human world; everyone is drawn to your beauty.
Meaning 'to look at faces', it highlights the importance of appearance, often in social situations, where being attractive can influence perceptions and connections.
Many industries now focus on looks, which is quite frustrating.
Translating to 'ex-boyfriend,' this term refers specifically to a former romantic partner. It's often used in contexts involving relationship discussions or nostalgia.
I ran into my ex-boyfriend yesterday.
Translating to 'loneliness syndrome', this term humorously refers to feeling lonely or isolated, especially in a social context. It suggests a humorous acceptance of one’s state of being alone.
Staying home for too long always leads to loneliness syndrome.
Translates to 'so high', used to express excitement or exhilaration, especially in a fun or party atmosphere. It encapsulates the joy of living in the moment.
Today's gathering was so high; we had a great time.
Translating to 'in the midst of a hundred busy things,' this term describes making an effort to prioritize something important even when one is extremely busy. It emphasizes commitment and responsibility.
Thank you for taking the time to attend my birthday party in the midst of your busy schedule!
This phrase translates to 'to look at it openly' and encourages a relaxed attitude toward life's challenges or setbacks. It's often used among friends to provide comfort or reassurance.
When faced with difficulties, try to look at it openly; don’t be too hard on yourself.
Translating to 'age of looking at faces,' this term highlights the cultural emphasis on physical appearance, especially in social settings like dating or job hunting.
In this age of looking at faces, appearance is really important.
Translating to 'cute' or 'adorable', this term is often used to describe anything that evokes affection or warmth, especially in regard to pets, characters, or designs.
This little kitten is so cute; it really brightens my mood.
Literally meaning 'feeding dog food,' this term is often used to describe the act of showing off romantic relationships or affectionate moments, making singles feel 'fed' with relationship envy. It's often used in a h...
Every time I see the photos my friend posts, I feel like I'm being fed dog food.
Literally 'wish list'. This term describes a list of things someone hopes to achieve or acquire, often used in social media to express desires or dreams.
I finally wrote down my wish list, filled with anticipation.
Translating to 'sunshine homebody,' this term describes a man who enjoys staying at home while maintaining a positive and cheerful attitude. It combines the notions of introversion with a bright outlook on life.
He is a sunshine homebody; even though he rarely goes out, he always wears a smile.
This slang means 'to flirt' and is often used to describe playful or charming behavior towards someone, typically in a romantic context.
He flirts with me every day; it's really boring.
A Chinese Odyssey — Stephen Chow's 1995 two-part fantasy comedy that bombed at the box office but became a cult classic beloved by an entire generation. The film's title is now used to describe any dramatic, over-the-...
You two keep breaking up and getting back together — you are basically living out A Chinese Odyssey.
This phrase means 'naughty and mischievous,' often used to describe playful or troublesome behavior, typically found in children but can apply to adults as well. It's an affectionate term that implies harmless fun.
His mischievous behavior left me amused and confused.
Translating to 'one word makes it decided,' this term is used to seal an agreement or promise, often humorously binding friends to a commitment.
We will go to the movies at 3 PM; it's a deal.
To play mind games; refers to using cunning or manipulative tactics in social or romantic situations. It implies a level of strategy often associated with personal relationships.
She always plays mind games at work, which is really off-putting.
Translating to 'support someone’s back', this term means to provide support or backing to someone, often in difficult situations. It denotes loyalty and friendship.
I will always be there to support you.
Literally translating to 'electromagnetic waves', this term is used to describe vibes or chemistry between people, often in romantic contexts. It highlights the emotional connections in human interactions.
The vibes between me and her are really in sync.
Translating to 'a knife mouth with a tofu heart,' this phrase describes someone who may be harsh or critical in their words but is actually kind-hearted. It's often used to describe friends or family members who are p...
Even though she's always sharp-tongued, I know she really cares about me.
Translating to 'sense of security', this term often describes the emotional comfort and stability someone seeks in relationships. It emphasizes the importance of trust and reliability in connections.
I hope to provide him with a sense of security so he won't feel lonely anymore.
Translating to 'strive or fight,' this term expresses the spirit of hard work and perseverance, often used in contexts of academic or career ambitions. It signifies a strong determination to achieve one's goals.
For the sake of my dreams, I will keep striving.