This section of the Chinese Slang Dictionary focuses on Love & Friends slang. Each entry includes the Chinese characters (汉字), pinyin pronunciation with tone marks, an English translation, at least one example sentence showing real usage, and cultural context explaining where the term comes from and how it is used. Terms are sorted by community popularity. Browse the full list below or use the search bar to find a specific term.
Translating to 'heartbroken', this term is often used in a lighter, more humorous context than its literal meaning. It's frequently used in memes and online posts to express over-the-top reactions or disappointments.
Seeing my idol leave the industry broke my heart.
Literally 'to release a pigeon,' this term is used when someone fails to show up for a planned meeting or date, effectively 'ghosting' the other person. It signifies a lack of reliability.
He stood me up yesterday, and I was really angry.
Translating to 'heart-shaking dictionary,' this term refers to phrases or words that evoke strong emotional responses, often used in the context of romantic feelings. It reflects the diversity of expressions in love.
The lyrics of this song are like a heart-shaking dictionary, moving me deeply.
Literally meaning 'toxic,' this term describes something harmful or detrimental to one’s well-being, often used in relationships or situations that are negatively affecting someone.
This relationship is toxic for me; I’ve decided to end it.
Translating to 'little awkwardness', this term is used humorously to describe mildly embarrassing situations that are not too serious. It's often invoked when people find themselves in funny or awkward moments.
It's a little awkward to say the wrong thing when meeting an old friend.
Translating to 'defeated dog,' this term describes someone who has failed in love or life, often used humorously to refer to single people or those experiencing romantic struggles.
I'm a defeated dog right now; I really hope to find a partner.
Literally meaning 'breaking ice,' this term is used to describe actions that ease tension or initiate conversation, often in social settings.
He used humor to break the ice, and everyone relaxed quickly.
This slang term means 'to flake' or 'to bail,' related to 'pigeon.' It describes a person who cancels plans unexpectedly, usually causing disappointment.
He flaked on me yesterday; it really made me angry.
This term refers to the act of posting sad or emotional content online, often accompanied by crying emojis or similar expressions. It conveys vulnerability.
I've posted sad content several times recently, and everyone is very concerned about me.
This phrase means 'though miles apart, we are close as neighbors.' It's often used to express the sentiment that distance does not diminish togetherness, especially in online relationships.
No matter how far apart we are, we're as close as neighbors.
Translating to 'little blue book', this slang refers to a set of unofficial rules or tips about navigating social situations, often shared informally among friends. It's about having 'insider knowledge'.
She always knows the secrets in the little blue book; she's amazing.
Translating to 'to be worried', this term captures feelings of anxiety and concern, often used in a lighthearted way among friends to lighten discussion about stress.
I've been so busy with work lately; I'm really worried.
Translating to 'bench culture,' this term describes a casual, laid-back way of spending time with friends or loved ones, often involving sitting and chatting without any particular activity. It emphasizes comfort and ...
We love to enjoy bench culture in the park, just chatting.
Literally meaning 'tea,' this term is a slang way to refer to gossip or scandalous news. When someone says 'have you had your tea?', it implies discussing juicy stories or rumors.
Have you heard? We're going to have some tea to talk about the new gossip.
Translating to 'knightly spirit,' this term refers to a sense of chivalry or a willingness to help others, often in the context of showing respect and kindness in interactions. It can refer to both real or perceived n...
Seeing someone help a stranger online, I felt the presence of knightly spirit.
This phrase means 'envy, jealousy, hatred' and is used to describe feelings of extreme jealousy towards someone else's success or happiness. It often implies a mix of admiration and resentment.
Her life is so good; all I can do is feel envy, jealousy, and hatred.
Translating to 'hit the tear point', this term is used when something is especially moving or emotional, causing someone to cry. It is commonly used in contexts involving touching stories or media.
This song really hit the tear point; I've listened to it several times.
This expression means 'to open an umbrella,' metaphorically used to indicate seeking shelter or protection, often in a social or emotional context.
When facing difficulties, friends are always willing to provide shelter.
Literally meaning 'licking the screen,' this term describes the act of being infatuated with something seen on a screen, like a cute character or attractive person. It's used humorously to express admiration or obsess...
Seeing her photo, I really couldn't help but lick the screen.
This term refers to a sense of competition or a challenge, often in a light-hearted context. It can denote a collective effort to accomplish a task or challenge each other.
Let's compete together and see who can win in this contest.
Literally means 'strawberry tribe'. It refers to a generation perceived as overly sensitive or vulnerable, often relating to mental health awareness among Millennials and Gen Z.
Many members of the strawberry tribe are sensitive to social pressures and can easily become anxious.
Literally 'little milk dog', this term describes a younger man who is cute, affectionate, and often vulnerable, appealing to older women. It’s often used in dating contexts to denote someone playful and endearing.
He is really a little milk dog, always so gentle when chatting with girls.
Translating to 'the age of friendship', it describes the duration of a friendship in a sentimental way. It's often used to express how long two people have known each other and reflects on shared memories.
Our age of friendship has already exceeded ten years.
This term mimics the sound of clapping or slapping and is often used in playful contexts, particularly to describe relationships or sexual innuendos. It's a humorous way to refer to physical intimacy.
They were intimate last night again, which is really enviable.
Literally means 'competing for affection,' often used to describe rivalry among friends or fans for someone's attention. It can be humorous or reflective of genuine competition.
There are always people competing for affection among us, but I know we’re all friends.
Scumbag girl / Player - A woman who plays with feelings.
She is a player, dating three guys at once.
Translating to 'as long as you're happy', this phrase emphasizes the importance of happiness over other measures of success or achievement, reflecting a carefree attitude.
No matter what others say, as long as you’re happy, that’s what matters.
This term means 'to dress up' or 'to adorn oneself'. It highlights the cultural emphasis on appearance, especially in social situations, and is often used in discussions about fashion or personal grooming.
Today, I've 'dressed up' particularly well, getting ready for the gathering.
Literally 'heartbreak literature', it refers to a genre of emotional writing and memes that express feelings of sadness or unrequited love. It has become popular among youth who share their emotional experiences online.
Many people share heartbreak literature short videos on Douyin.
This term can be translated to 'groom him' or 'take care of him,' but in internet slang, it means to hype someone up or support them, often in fandoms or communities. It's about boosting someone’s public image.
We need to hype him up together to make him more famous!
This term translates to 'heartache' or 'bittersweet' and is often used to describe a feeling of emotional sadness mixed with nostalgia or humor. It can refer to both positive and negative experiences.
Seeing their story makes me feel bittersweet.
Meaning 'from the bottom of my heart,' this phrase expresses genuine feelings or sincerity towards someone or something. It carries emotional weight and can be used in various contexts.
I sincerely thank you for everything you've done for me.
Translating to 'I am not a medicine god,' this term originates from a popular film and refers to someone who cannot solve all problems or save everyone. It's often used humorously to indicate limitations.
Don't treat me like a medicine god; I have my own troubles.
Meaning 'younger partner', this term is applicable in romantic contexts where one party is younger than the other. It's often used to describe relationships where age differences spark interest or humor.
I like younger boys; I find them particularly charming.
Literally means 'as promised', used when expectations set in conversation are not met. It often conveys disappointment or irony.
Didn’t you promise to come today?
Literally 'gas station,' but often used as a metaphor for a place or support system that provides encouragement or motivation. It indicates a supportive environment or a source of uplift.
Friends are your gas station when you need support.
This term is a playful way to refer to someone who is always running around or acting overly energetic. It can be used affectionately or to poke fun at someone's hyperactivity.
This little one is really full of energy!
This term refers to 'missing' or 'ghosting', particularly when someone fails to show up or respond in a timely manner. It has a playful connotation and is often used humorously in social media contexts.
He ghosted again, he's really a master of breaking promises.
Meaning 'to add oil,' this phrase is a popular way to encourage someone, similar to 'keep going' or 'you can do it.' It’s often used in competitive contexts, from exams to sports.
You must keep going, the competition is about to start!
This term translates to 'atmosphere group' and refers to individuals who are skilled at creating a lively or enjoyable environment, particularly in social situations. It highlights the social dynamics within groups.
She always manages to be the atmosphere maker at parties.
Literally meaning 'indifferent' or 'cold,' this term describes a person who shows no emotion or concern. It's often used to characterize someone who is unbothered by social issues or personal relationships.
She's always indifferent to these matters; I don't know what to do.
Literally meaning 'bike,' this term describes someone who is indecisive or wavers between options, especially in relationships or choices. It implies that the person is trying to please multiple parties at once.
He always plays both sides, making me feel he’s unreliable.
Translating to 'lost contact,' this term describes when someone goes silent or stops responding, often used in the context of relationships or friendships. It reflects a sense of abandonment or disconnection.
He has been out of contact lately, and I'm a bit worried.
Translating to 'literary youth,' this term describes individuals who are cultured, artistic, and often engaged in creative pursuits. It highlights a trendy, bohemian lifestyle.
She is a literary youth, always paying attention to various art activities.
Literally meaning 'hard to endure', it is often used to describe feelings of discomfort, sadness, or emotional pain. It can refer to both physical and emotional sensations.
I've been feeling down lately; it feels particularly uncomfortable.
Meaning 'farewell song,' this term often refers to songs or phrases used in parting contexts, especially in humorous ways when someone leaves or ends a situation. It can also imply a sense of closure.
Today is my last day; this farewell song represents my feelings.
This term means 'strategic type' and is used to describe people or behaviors that are calculated and thoughtful, especially in relationships or social interactions. It often implies a level of cunning or cleverness.
She always takes a strategic approach at work; she’s very clever.
'Earthly little fairy' refers to a girl who is beautiful, charming, and has an ethereal quality. It's often used as a compliment, especially on social media.
She is truly an earthly little fairy, so beautiful.
Translating to 'true love', this term signifies genuine affection and commitment between partners. It’s often used in romantic contexts and can also refer to deep friendships.
In this world, true love is the most precious thing.
Means 'emotional collapse,' used to describe a moment when someone is overwhelmed by their feelings or stress, often leading to an exaggerated reaction.
Watching this video made my emotions collapse; it was so touching.
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