This section of the Chinese Slang Dictionary focuses on Love & Friends slang. Each entry includes the Chinese characters (汉字), pinyin pronunciation with tone marks, an English translation, at least one example sentence showing real usage, and cultural context explaining where the term comes from and how it is used. Terms are sorted by community popularity. Browse the full list below or use the search bar to find a specific term.
Literally 'little train,' this term is used to describe someone who is very energetic and playful, especially in social contexts. It conveys a sense of joy and liveliness.
She always brings the energy of a little train, making everyone happy.
Translating to 'surprise' or 'pleasant surprise,' this term refers to unexpected joy or excitement, often in the context of gifts or events. It captures the essence of delight in the unexpected.
I've prepared a surprise for you; I hope you like it.
Literally meaning 'pretending to be single,' this phrase describes individuals who act as if they are single to attract attention or interest, often used humorously in dating contexts.
He always pretends to be single to attract people’s attention.
Translating to 'matching families,' this term refers to the idea that relationships should be formed between individuals from similar social or economic backgrounds. It reflects traditional views on marriage and compa...
Her parents insist on matching families, so she faces a lot of pressure.
This term means 'short essay' and is often used to refer to informal or humorous posts that share personal experiences or opinions. It reflects a trendy format for storytelling on social media.
I wrote a short essay today about my travel stories.
First marry, then love describes a modern perspective on relationships where marriage precedes emotional attachment. It reflects changing cultural norms around romance and commitment.
Our generation is increasingly accepting the model of marrying first and then developing love.
Literally 'cloud swallow', this playful term uses a pun to refer to 'wonton' but as slang, it describes getting involved in relationships or issues with a light-hearted, carefree attitude, often without deep commitment.
This carefree way of life makes me feel relaxed.
Translating to 'light chaser,' this term refers to someone who actively pursues their dreams or aspirations, often with a sense of urgency and passion.
She is a light chaser, always working hard to achieve her dreams.
Translating to 'Little Brother Ma', this is a term used to refer to a well-known figure or influencer, often in the context of admiration. It indicates a familiar yet respectful form of address.
Little Brother Ma's new song is really nice.
This term means 'to accompany in conversation,' often used in online contexts where people seek companionship or conversation. It can refer to both casual talks and professional services.
Do you have time tonight? I’d like to ask you to keep me company in a chat.
Translating to 'like a storm', this phrase describes something that happens suddenly and intensely, often used in emotional contexts.
Her words hit me like a storm, leaving me unprepared.
Translating to 'varied ways of chasing stars', this term describes the multi-faceted ways fans express their admiration for celebrities, often involving creative and dedicated efforts.
Her varied ways of chasing stars are truly admirable.
This term refers to young people, often in a teasing or affectionate way, highlighting their youthful energy or naivety. It can imply endearment or mild criticism.
You young people really know how to have fun!
Literally meaning 'little waist essence', this term is used to refer to a fashionable and charming person, often associated with trends in body image and style.
She really is stylish; everything she wears looks good.
This term means 'to hold up the scene,' used to describe someone who supports or uplifts a social event or gathering, making it more enjoyable. It can refer to someone with good social skills or presence.
He always knows how to hold up the scene and make gatherings enjoyable.
Translating to 'facial paralysis', this term humorously refers to someone who is unexpressive or emotionless, especially in situations that would typically elicit a reaction. It suggests a stoic or indifferent demeanor.
His emotionless face at the party made me helpless.
Translating to 'heartache,' this term is used to express deep emotional pain, often in romantic contexts. It reflects feelings of heartbreak or sorrow.
Seeing them break up makes my heart ache severely.
Literally meaning 'soul ferryman', this phrase refers to someone who helps others navigate through difficult times or emotional struggles. It also carries a deeper philosophical or metaphorical meaning.
My friend acted as my soul ferryman during my low points.
Meaning 'more than friendship, but not yet love,' this phrase perfectly describes ambiguous relationships where feelings are strong but have not transitioned into romance. It’s often used among young people.
We are in a relationship that is more than friendship, but not yet love.
This term refers to a traditional practice of arranged meetings between potential romantic partners, usually set up by family or friends. It highlights cultural expectations and the societal pressure of finding a part...
My parents arranged a matchmaking meeting for me.
Official announcement - Making a relationship public.
They finally announced their relationship!
Translating to 'Buddha system love', it describes a laid-back approach to romantic relationships, where individuals are not overly concerned about perfection or pressure.
I just want a laid-back romance; I’ll go with the flow.
Translating to 'wife spoiling madman,' this term describes a husband who dotes on his wife excessively, often used humorously.
He is a wife spoiling madman, cooking for her every day.
Translating to 'working love', this term describes romantic relationships formed between coworkers or during work-related events. It captures the tensions and dynamics often present in such relationships.
We are the perfect example of a working love.
Meaning 'first eat a piece of candy,' this phrase is often used to lighten the mood or make a situation more pleasant before discussing something serious or unpleasant.
Let's eat a piece of candy before discussing something important.
Translating to 'adding flowers to brocade', this phrase describes enhancing something that is already good. It's commonly used to refer to improvements or additional benefits.
This trip was great; adding flowers to the brocade was meeting an old friend.
Translating to 'mental age', this term is often used to assess how mature or childish someone behaves compared to their actual age, frequently in a humorous or lighthearted context.
Although he is thirty, his mental age is only sixteen.
Translating to 'bench culture,' this term describes a casual, laid-back way of spending time with friends or loved ones, often involving sitting and chatting without any particular activity. It emphasizes comfort and ...
We love to enjoy bench culture in the park, just chatting.
Literally meaning 'little chick', this term affectionately refers to someone who is young, naive, or innocent. It is often used in a playful context.
You little chick are so cute; how can you be so naive?
Translating to 'chitchat' or 'nattering', this term describes a style of speaking that involves excessive talking or gossiping, often in a light-hearted or annoying manner. It's often used to describe someone who talk...
She always chats incessantly, making it a bit annoying to listen.
Translating to ‘time flies like a shuttle’, this phrase reflects the feeling of time passing quickly, often used to express nostalgia or the rapid pace of life.
Time flies like a shuttle; I don’t even remember the last time I saw you.
Meaning 'carefree' or 'whatever,' this term expresses an attitude of not overly caring about outcomes. It reflects a relaxed approach to life choices, often used in casual conversations.
What do you want to eat today? It's whatever you choose.
This term means 'little tease,' generally used to describe someone who flirts or teases in a playful manner, often without serious intentions.
She loves to tease others playfully; it's really fun.
Meaning 'to favor' or 'to prefer,' this term is often used to describe someone who is held in high regard or popular among peers. It's used in both casual and formal contexts.
He is very favored in class; he's the teachers' pet.
This phrase translates to 'blessing of the human world', used to express gratitude for good fortune or happy moments in life. It carries a sense of appreciation for the little joys.
Having such a friend is truly a blessing in the human world.
Literally translating to 'a beautiful face in a prosperous era', this term is used to describe someone with an exceptionally beautiful appearance. It's often used in a complimentary or exaggerated way.
She truly is a beauty in a prosperous era, attracting attention wherever she goes.
Translating to 'abandoned,' this term is often used in discussions around feelings of neglect or being overlooked, especially in social or romantic contexts. It can evoke sympathy or humor depending on the situation.
I feel abandoned; no one is paying attention to me.
This phrase translates to 'lost but knows to return' and refers to someone who realizes their mistakes and chooses to correct their path. It often applies to self-improvement and personal growth.
After reflection, he finally realized his mistakes and chose to return.
This term means 'to dress up' or 'to adorn oneself'. It highlights the cultural emphasis on appearance, especially in social situations, and is often used in discussions about fashion or personal grooming.
Today, I've 'dressed up' particularly well, getting ready for the gathering.
This term refers to socializing or attending gatherings for professional or obligatory reasons. It often carries a connotation of being tiresome or obligatory rather than enjoyable.
I don’t want to attend this social obligation; it’s just too boring.
Scumbag guy / Player - A man who plays with feelings.
He is a player, ignore him.
While it literally means 'faith' or 'belief,' in internet slang, it can refer to the unwavering support or fandom for certain celebrities, brands, or ideas. It signifies loyalty and passion.
His faith is in this band.
This term means 'to grasp' or 'to control,' and in internet slang, it refers to someone skillfully managing a situation or conversation. It implies a sense of confidence and mastery in social interactions.
He can always grasp everyone's emotions at gatherings, and the atmosphere is great.
Literally 'childish,' this term refers to someone who behaves in a naïve or immature manner, often used in a teasing or affectionate way. It can be endearing or frustrating depending on context.
Although he is an adult, he still occasionally acts very childish.
Translates to 'happy to part ways.' This term is often used humorously to express relief or joy at the end of an exhausting relationship or interaction.
After this quarrel, I truly feel happy to part ways.
Translating to 'old sunshine,' this term is used to describe someone who is upbeat, cheerful, and positive. It is often used to describe a person who brings joy and positivity into others' lives.
You are such a ray of sunshine, always making people feel happy.
Meaning 'sweet' or 'honeyed,' this term is often used to describe romantic relationships or moments filled with affection. It can also refer to pleasant and heartwarming situations.
Their love story is truly sweet.
Translating to 'hidden in the heart', this phrase is used to describe feelings or thoughts that are kept secret or not openly expressed. It can relate to love or personal reflections.
Some things I can only keep hidden in my heart; I can't tell others.
This term translates to 'the arrangement is on', indicating that plans are confirmed and set into motion. It conveys a sense of readiness and excitement about upcoming events.
Tomorrow's gathering is all arranged; everyone get ready!
Chivalry and righteousness — the moral code of the wuxia hero: standing up for the weak, keeping promises, and prioritizing justice over personal gain. Used online to genuinely praise someone's selfless, principled be...
He helped me so much without asking anything in return — truly the spirit of chivalry.
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