This section of the Chinese Slang Dictionary focuses on Love & Friends slang. Each entry includes the Chinese characters (汉字), pinyin pronunciation with tone marks, an English translation, at least one example sentence showing real usage, and cultural context explaining where the term comes from and how it is used. Terms are sorted by community popularity. Browse the full list below or use the search bar to find a specific term.
Love & Friends Slang Terms
Translating to 'reverse parenting', this term describes a situation where children teach their parents life lessons or correct their behaviors. It often highlights generational differences in perspectives.
Nowadays, many children are reverse parenting; I think it’s quite interesting.
This term translates to 'working couple' and describes partners who are both engaged in demanding jobs, often with shared responsibilities and life challenges. It reflects contemporary work-life dynamics.
We are a working couple; we're busy with work but still trying hard.
This term means 'super sweet' and is often used to describe overly cute or affectionate things, such as a couple's interaction. It can convey both admiration and a teasing tone.
Their sweet interactions are so overly cute that they make me want to gag.
Literally meaning 'little wolf dog', this term is used to describe young men who are considered attractive and are also protective or loyal, often in a romantic context. It embodies the idea of charming yet fierce qua...
He's just a little wolf dog; being with him feels secure.
Literally 'face control,' this term refers to people who are very particular about appearances, especially physical attractiveness. It highlights a trend in dating and social preferences.
He is a face control; he only likes good-looking people.
Translates to 'confused bug', used to describe someone who often acts confused or forgets things easily. It's often used humorously among friends to denote endearing absent-mindedness.
He's really a 'confused bug', always forgetting to bring things.
Translating to 'accompany you until old', this phrase is a romantic commitment expressing the desire to stay by someone’s side throughout life. It reflects deep affection and loyalty.
I want to be with you and accompany you until we grow old.
Referring to the act of exploring or checking out something, this term is often associated with casually browsing or exploring new interests. In dating contexts, it can imply looking for potential partners.
I plan to check out the new restaurant tonight.
This term translates to 'thermos', but in internet slang, it humorously refers to someone who is warmhearted and caring, often associated with hobbies like tea-making. It reflects a trend of self-care and mindfulness.
She is like a thermos, always carrying warmth with her.
Translating to 'abuse dogs,' this slang is used humorously to describe displays of public affection that make single people feel envious. It reflects the playful bitterness of being single in contrast to happily coupl...
Their affection really makes my single life feel miserable.
Translates to 'worldly beauty' and refers to someone who is extraordinarily attractive. This term is often used in a playful or exaggerated way among young people, especially in the context of social media.
She is truly a 'worldly beauty', and many people are captivated by her.
Translating to 'virtual feelings,' this term describes the emotions or relationships that exist primarily online, used to highlight the growing trend of online interactions in today's society.
Now many young people’s emotions are virtual feelings.
Literal meaning refers to a jade flower. Colloquially, it’s used to describe a person who is cute or endearing, often used in a playful or teasing context.
You look so good today, just like a cute flower!
Translating to 'heartache,' this term is used to express deep emotional pain, often in romantic contexts. It reflects feelings of heartbreak or sorrow.
Seeing them break up makes my heart ache severely.
Translating to 'drag you into,' this phrase is often used when someone involves another person into drama or complex situations, usually against their will. It highlights involuntary engagement in a situation.
I don’t want to drag you into my troubles.
Translating to 'passerby affinity,' this phrase describes someone who easily gets along with strangers or has good social skills. It reflects a person’s friendliness in social interactions.
She has great passerby affinity and always makes new friends.
Translating to 'little heart,' this term is often used to express affection or fondness, usually in a cute and playful manner, particularly on social media.
You're so cute; I want to give you my little heart!
This phrase means 'finding words when there’s nothing to say,' describing a situation where someone is trying to keep a conversation going without a real topic. It often conveys awkwardness in social interactions.
Chatting with him always feels like finding words when there's nothing to say; it’s really awkward.
This term means 'to explain clearly' or 'to spill the beans' and is often used in conversations about being transparent or honest. It's related to open communication.
We need to be clear with each other; otherwise, misunderstandings will grow.
Originally a character from a popular Chinese animated series, '鼠来宝' is used to describe someone who is very clever or resourceful, often used in a playful context. It implies that the person can come up with good sol...
This kid is truly clever; he can always think of great ideas.
Literally 'little train,' this term is used to describe someone who is very energetic and playful, especially in social contexts. It conveys a sense of joy and liveliness.
She always brings the energy of a little train, making everyone happy.
Translates to 'friendly'. It describes a warm and welcoming demeanor, often used to refer to kindness in interactions. It emphasizes the importance of good relationships in social contexts.
She is a friendly person who is always willing to help others.
Translating to 'white cut chicken,' this term is often used metaphorically to describe someone or something that appears simple or unpretentious but is actually very good. It's a compliment about understated excellence.
Her talent is like white cut chicken, simple yet very genuine.
This term refers to a traditional practice of arranged meetings between potential romantic partners, usually set up by family or friends. It highlights cultural expectations and the societal pressure of finding a part...
My parents arranged a matchmaking meeting for me.
Brothers - Close male friends.
Bro, help me out.
'话痨' translates to 'chatty person' and is used humorously to refer to someone who talks excessively or loves to chat. It's often used in a light-hearted manner among friends.
She is a chatty person, and chatting with her is always fun.
While it literally means 'faith' or 'belief,' in internet slang, it can refer to the unwavering support or fandom for certain celebrities, brands, or ideas. It signifies loyalty and passion.
His faith is in this band.
Translating to 'coupling success,' this playful term refers to successfully finding a romantic partner. It's often used humorously in dating contexts.
I finally found a partner today and went on a date with a handsome guy.
Translating to 'sex buddy', this term refers to a casual sexual partner without romantic involvement. It reflects modern attitudes towards casual relationships and intimacy.
They are just sex buddies, with no further development.
Translated as 'dirt-eating girl,' this term describes young women who, despite their love for fashion and beauty, often find themselves short on money and unable to afford their desires. It's used humorously and can r...
She always wants to buy new clothes, but now she can only be a 'dirt-eating girl.'
Literally 'childish,' this term refers to someone who behaves in a naïve or immature manner, often used in a teasing or affectionate way. It can be endearing or frustrating depending on context.
Although he is an adult, he still occasionally acts very childish.
Translating to 'exquisite pig girl', this term humorously describes women who are fashion-forward and put a lot of time into their appearances, often leading a pampered lifestyle. It reflects modern beauty standards a...
She is such an exquisite pig girl, always dressed beautifully.
Translating to 'working love', this term describes romantic relationships formed between coworkers or during work-related events. It captures the tensions and dynamics often present in such relationships.
We are the perfect example of a working love.
Translating to 'I like you', this term is often playfully or softly used in romantic contexts, especially among younger generations. It reflects affection in a casual way and is often used in flirtation.
I really like you; can we be friends?
Meaning 'first eat a piece of candy,' this phrase is often used to lighten the mood or make a situation more pleasant before discussing something serious or unpleasant.
Let's eat a piece of candy before discussing something important.
Literally 'CEO dream,' this term refers to the desire to achieve success and wealth, often associated with romanticized views of corporate life. It's a humorous nod to aspirations that may be unrealistic.
I'm currently pursuing my CEO dream.
Translating to 'take it easy', this term is used as a reminder to someone to not overexert themselves or to relax. It carries a caring tone in friendly conversations.
No matter how busy work gets, you need to take it easy.
Translating to 'dumped' or 'let go', this term describes the act of ending a romantic relationship, often used casually among friends discussing dating.
I heard she recently dumped her boyfriend and is living happily.
This term means 'to accompany in conversation,' often used in online contexts where people seek companionship or conversation. It can refer to both casual talks and professional services.
Do you have time tonight? I’d like to ask you to keep me company in a chat.
Meaning 'emotional IQ', this term is used to describe a person's ability to understand and manage emotions effectively, especially in social contexts. It emphasizes the importance of emotional awareness.
Improving emotional IQ is very helpful for interpersonal relationships.
Translating to 'adding flowers to brocade', this phrase describes enhancing something that is already good. It's commonly used to refer to improvements or additional benefits.
This trip was great; adding flowers to the brocade was meeting an old friend.
This term means 'delighted' or 'pleased', often used to describe someone feeling content or satisfied with themselves or a situation. It conveys a sense of happiness.
She received a gift, her face radiating delight.
Translating to 'familiar to the eye,' this term describes a person or thing that looks familiar but cannot be easily identified. It's often used humorously in situations where someone recognizes a face but can't recal...
Her face seems familiar to me, but I can't remember who she is.
Translating to 'inviting', this term is commonly used in a casual context to arrange social gatherings or meet-ups, often among friends or online communities.
Let's invite each other to watch a movie next weekend.
Literally translating to 'a beautiful face in a prosperous era', this term is used to describe someone with an exceptionally beautiful appearance. It's often used in a complimentary or exaggerated way.
She truly is a beauty in a prosperous era, attracting attention wherever she goes.
Literally meaning 'hitting birds', this phrase describes the act of engaging in casual flirting or playful banter. It can also refer to teasing someone in a lighthearted manner.
At gatherings, he always enjoys playful flirting, creating a relaxed atmosphere.
Literally 'the heart thumps', this phrase conveys a feeling of love at first sight or an instant crush. It’s often used in romantic contexts.
The moment she smiled at me, my heart thumped.
This phrase translates to 'mother's heart' and refers to a nurturing, supportive attitude, often used in a humorous or sarcastic way when someone feels overly protective or caring towards others.
Seeing little animals brings out my motherly heart, and I can't help but want to take care of them.
Literally 'eat vinegar,' this expression means to feel jealous, particularly in romantic contexts. It conveys feelings of insecurity or rivalry.
He always gets jealous, it's really frustrating.
Translating to 'social barriers', this term refers to the experience of difficulty in social interactions, often humorously. It can reflect nervousness or awkwardness in social settings.
He always feels social barriers; he gets very nervous at gatherings.