Love & Friends Chinese Slang — 825+ Terms with Pinyin & English — Page 9 | Chinese Slang

This section of the Chinese Slang Dictionary focuses on Love & Friends slang. Each entry includes the Chinese characters (汉字), pinyin pronunciation with tone marks, an English translation, at least one example sentence showing real usage, and cultural context explaining where the term comes from and how it is used. Terms are sorted by community popularity. Browse the full list below or use the search bar to find a specific term.

Love & Friends Slang Terms

小心思 (xiǎo xīn sī)

Translating to 'little thoughts,' this term is used to describe someone who has secret intentions or feelings, often in a romantic context. It conveys a sense of affectionate or intriguing hidden feelings.

His little thoughts about her make people feel sweet.

人间珍宝 (Rénjiān zhēnbǎo)

Literally 'earthly treasure,' used to describe someone or something that is incredibly precious and valuable, often in a humorous or exaggerated way. It conveys deep appreciation or admiration.

In this video, he truly is an earthly treasure.

原地蹦迪 (yuán dì bèng dí)

Literally means 'jumping in place to dance.' It refers to having fun or celebrating without needing a dance floor, often used in the context of enjoying oneself at home or in small gatherings.

On the weekend, my friends and I jumped in place to dance at home and had a great time.

三观不合 (sān guān bù hé)

Translating to 'three views do not align', this phrase refers to differing values, beliefs, or perspectives between individuals, often used in discussions about relationships or friendships.

Our values don't align; we might not be suitable for each other.

老公天天 (lǎo gōng tiān tiān)

This term literally means 'hubby every day', often used by women to affectionately refer to their boyfriends or husbands in a cute or teasing way. It highlights the everyday endearments in relationships.

My hubby gives me flowers every day; it's so sweet.

希望之星 (xī wàng zhī xīng)

Meaning 'star of hope', this term symbolizes someone or something that represents optimism and potential, often used to uplift or encourage others. It can be used in personal or professional contexts.

You are the star of hope in my heart; you must believe you can do it.

门当户对 (mén dāng hù duì)

Translating to 'matching families,' this term refers to the idea that relationships should be formed between individuals from similar social or economic backgrounds. It reflects traditional views on marriage and compa...

Her parents insist on matching families, so she faces a lot of pressure.

许愿树 (xǔ yuàn shù)

Translating to 'wish tree', it refers to the practice of making wishes, typically in online communities or social media settings. It symbolizes hope and sharing dreams with others.

In this event, we can write our wishes on the wish tree.

撑场子 (chēng chǎng zi)

This term means 'to hold up the scene,' used to describe someone who supports or uplifts a social event or gathering, making it more enjoyable. It can refer to someone with good social skills or presence.

He always knows how to hold up the scene and make gatherings enjoyable.

咕咕钟 (gū gū zhōng)

Refers to someone who is chronically late, like a 'cuckoo clock' that just can't keep time. It's used humorously to describe friends who always show up late.

He's such a cuckoo clock; he always arrives late for our appointments.

灵魂伴侣 (líng hún bàn lǚ)

Translating to 'soulmate', this term describes a deep, spiritual connection between two people, often romantic. It reflects the widely held belief in finding a perfect match and is frequently used in discussions about...

I finally found my soulmate!

小哥哥/小姐姐 (xiǎogēgē/xiǎojiějiě)

These terms literally mean 'little brother' and 'little sister,' but they are commonly used to refer to young men and women in an affectionate or flirtatious way. It reflects a friendly or playful tone.

That young man is so handsome!

约吗 (yuē ma)

Meaning 'Shall we meet?', this slang is often used in a flirty context to suggest a date or hangout. It reflects a casual approach to dating among young people.

Are you free this weekend? Shall we meet?

微胖 (wēi pàng)

Translating to 'slightly chubby,' this term is a body-positive expression that celebrates curves without the stigma of being overweight. It reflects a more inclusive beauty standard in contemporary Chinese culture.

Her figure is slightly chubby and very charming.

解救 (jiě jiù)

Meaning 'to rescue', this term is often used in online contexts to describe helping someone in need, especially in humorous or dramatic scenarios depicted in videos or memes.

He always wants to rescue friends who are in trouble.

狂欢派对 (kuánghuān pàiduì)

Translating to 'carnival party', this term is used to describe lively and extravagant social gatherings, often characterized by fun, excessive celebration, and a carefree spirit. It reflects a youthful desire for free...

We're going to attend a carnival party this weekend; I can't wait!

特别的存在 (tè bié de cún zài)

This phrase means 'a special existence' and is often used to describe someone or something that stands out in a significant way. It's used to express admiration or fondness for individuals who are unique.

You are a special existence in my heart and will never be forgotten.

鸭子 (yā zǐ)

This term means 'duck' but is used to describe someone who is clueless or in a state of confusion, particularly in romantic situations.

He's really clueless in this regard; he has no idea how to pursue girls.

自我放逐 (zì wǒ fàng zhú)

Meaning 'self-exile', this term refers to individuals who withdraw from society or certain social circles, often due to feeling overwhelmed or stressed. It reflects a desire for solitude in the face of societal pressu...

After months of self-exile, I finally decided to face life again.

成真 (chéng zhēn)

The phrase 'to come true' is often used in contexts where dreams, wishes, or goals are achieved. It conveys a sense of hope and realization, frequently appearing in motivational discussions or personal anecdotes.

I've always hoped for this to come true, and now it has finally happened.

心动警告 (xīn dòng jǐng gào)

Translating to 'heart flutter warning,' this term is used to alert others to something romantically appealing or cute, often in the context of social media posts. It’s a playful way to signify that someone finds somet...

Upon seeing that picture, I couldn't help but send out a heart flutter warning.

甜蜜 (tián mì)

Meaning 'sweet' or 'honeyed,' this term is often used to describe romantic relationships or moments filled with affection. It can also refer to pleasant and heartwarming situations.

Their love story is truly sweet.

社会我吴彦祖 (shè huì wǒ wú yàn zǔ)

Translating to 'Wu Yanzu in society', this term humorously refers to someone who is exceptionally handsome or charismatic, often used in a self-deprecating manner to draw comparisons with celebrities.

Today when I went out, I felt like Wu Yanzu in society.

大话西游 (dà huà xī yóu)

A Chinese Odyssey — Stephen Chow's 1995 two-part fantasy comedy that bombed at the box office but became a cult classic beloved by an entire generation. The film's title is now used to describe any dramatic, over-the-...

You two keep breaking up and getting back together — you are basically living out A Chinese Odyssey.

星辰大海 (xīng chén dà hǎi)

Literally translating to 'stars and the sea,' this poetic term is often used to express a longing for exploration and adventure or an idealistic view of life. It invokes a sense of dreams and possibilities.

I hope to explore the stars and the sea in the future and see the beauty of the world.

狗粮 (gǒu liáng)

Literally 'dog food,' this slang term refers to public displays of affection between couples that make single people feel left out or envious.

Their affection is like dog food, making me, a single dog, feel helpless.

蠢萌 (chǔn méng)

Combining 'silly' and 'cute', it refers to someone or something that’s adorably foolish, often used in a lighthearted, affectionate way to describe people's quirks.

He’s actually a bit silly and cute; he always makes me laugh.

撮合 (cuō hé)

This term means 'to bring together' or 'to matchmake,' often used in the context of romantic relationships. It conveys the spirit of connecting people.

My friends always want to set me up with him.

控制欲 (kòngzhìyù)

Meaning 'desire to control,' this term is often used to describe someone who is overly possessive or controlling in a relationship. It can be used in critical discussions about interpersonal dynamics.

His controlling nature makes me feel suffocated.

风格 (fēng gé)

Literal meaning 'style,' but used colloquially to refer to someone's unique personality or approach. It's often used to commend someone’s distinctiveness.

His style is truly unique.

社交恐惧 (shè jiāo kǒng jù)

This term translates to 'social anxiety' and describes the fear or discomfort in social situations. It’s commonly discussed among younger generations in relation to their experiences in navigating social media and off...

I have some social anxiety; it’s difficult for me to communicate face-to-face.

人间富贵花 (rén jiān fù guì huā)

Translating to 'earthly wealthy flower', this term refers to someone who is exceptionally beautiful or glamorous, often used to praise someone's looks or style.

She looks like an earthly wealthy flower in that dress.

梦中情人 (mèng zhōng qíngrén)

Literally translating to 'dream lover,' this term refers to a person's ideal romantic partner, often someone unattainable or imagined. It captures the essence of fantasy in love.

He has been searching for his dream lover.

晒幸福 (shài xìng fú)

Meaning 'showing off happiness', this slang phrase is used when someone shares pictures or stories about their happy moments, often on social media. It can convey genuine joy or sometimes be viewed as boastful.

She shows off her happiness on social media every day.

计划生育 (jì huà shēng yù)

Translating to 'family planning', this term is often used in discussions regarding societal expectations about marriage and having children. In internet slang, it can carry humorous connotations about avoiding relatio...

I've decided to continue family planning and not rush into dating.

被遗弃 (bèi yí qì)

Translating to 'abandoned,' this term is often used in discussions around feelings of neglect or being overlooked, especially in social or romantic contexts. It can evoke sympathy or humor depending on the situation.

I feel abandoned; no one is paying attention to me.

闪婚 (shǎn hūn)

Translates to 'flash marriage', referring to couples that get married quickly, often after a short courtship. This term can carry both excitement and stigma depending on the context.

Their 'flash marriage' surprised everyone.

贴心 (tiē xīn)

Literally 'close to the heart', this term describes someone or something that is considerate and caring. It's often used in romantic contexts or among friends to express appreciation for supportive actions.

The gift you gave is so thoughtful; I love it so much.

小确义 (xiǎo què yì)

Translating to 'small certainties of meaning,' this term describes moments in life that are meaningful yet simple. It signifies appreciating meaningful interactions and experiences.

Gatherings with friends always give me a sense of small certainties of meaning.

承包 (chéngbāo)

Meaning 'to undertake' or 'to take on,' this term is often used in a humorous context to describe someone who takes responsibility for various tasks, especially among friends. It presents a sense of camaraderie.

I’m undertaking the party this time; everyone come!

失败者联盟 (shībàizhě liánméng)

Literally 'losers' alliance', this term is humorously used to describe a group of friends who bond over their failures and shortcomings in life, often used in a light-hearted context.

We are this group of losers' alliance, encouraging each other is enough.

反向社交 (fǎn xiàng shè jiāo)

Translating to 'reverse socializing', this term refers to engaging online instead of face-to-face, often related to introverted behavior.

I prefer reverse socializing; I'd rather chat online than meet in person.

绅士 (shēn shì)

Meaning 'gentleman', it describes someone who behaves in a refined, polite manner. It’s often used humorously in a sarcastic context.

He behaved like a gentleman at the party, but privately, he loves to joke around.

秀恩爱 (xiù ēn ài)

Translating to 'showing off love,' this term describes couples who publicly display their affection, often on social media. It can evoke feelings of envy among single people or those in less ideal relationships.

They are showing off their love on Weibo; I feel the pressure of being single growing.

夜游 (yè yóu)

Meaning 'night tour', it refers to going out at night for leisure, often to explore nightlife or hang out with friends. It captures the energy of urban nightlife.

Let's go for a night tour this weekend; let's go eat supper together!

打电话 (dǎ diàn huà)

Literally meaning 'to make a phone call,' this term is often used in a broader sense to indicate reaching out for help or making an important connection in a casual way. It showcases the importance of communication in...

If there's something going on, feel free to call me anytime.

亲妈粉 (qīn mā fěn)

Translating to 'mom fans', this term describes extremely devoted fans who support someone or something as if they were family. It reflects a deep emotional connection and loyalty.

He is a mom fan, always supporting his idol.

面瘫 (miàn tān)

Translating to 'facial paralysis', this term humorously refers to someone who is unexpressive or emotionless, especially in situations that would typically elicit a reaction. It suggests a stoic or indifferent demeanor.

His emotionless face at the party made me helpless.

梦想家 (mèng xiǎng jiā)

Translating to 'dreamer,' this term refers to people who are idealistic and optimistic about their goals and aspirations. It can be used positively to encourage creativity and ambition.

Be a dreamer and bravely pursue your goals.

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