This section of the Chinese Slang Dictionary focuses on Love & Friends slang. Each entry includes the Chinese characters (汉字), pinyin pronunciation with tone marks, an English translation, at least one example sentence showing real usage, and cultural context explaining where the term comes from and how it is used. Terms are sorted by community popularity. Browse the full list below or use the search bar to find a specific term.
Love & Friends Slang Terms
Meaning 'to undertake' or 'to take on,' this term is often used in a humorous context to describe someone who takes responsibility for various tasks, especially among friends. It presents a sense of camaraderie.
I’m undertaking the party this time; everyone come!
Literally 'earthly treasure,' used to describe someone or something that is incredibly precious and valuable, often in a humorous or exaggerated way. It conveys deep appreciation or admiration.
In this video, he truly is an earthly treasure.
Translating to 'really sweet,' this slang is often used to describe affectionate or endearing actions, particularly in romantic contexts. It conveys a sense of warmth and happiness derived from someone's behavior.
Their interactions are really sweet, making people feel very happy.
This term means 'to hold up the scene,' used to describe someone who supports or uplifts a social event or gathering, making it more enjoyable. It can refer to someone with good social skills or presence.
He always knows how to hold up the scene and make gatherings enjoyable.
Translating to 'haunting dreams', this phrase expresses a deep longing or obsession with someone or something. It symbolizes emotional attachment that lingers in thoughts and dreams.
Every night, I am haunted by dreams, thinking about the beautiful moments with her.
Literally meaning 'looks explode the scale', this term is used to describe someone who is exceptionally attractive or has a very high level of aesthetic appeal. It’s often used in a playful or exaggerated manner.
Her looks are off the charts, simply like a celebrity.
Meaning 'to seek friends', this term is used on social media platforms for looking to make new friends or connections, often for dating or expanding social circles.
I’m 'seeking friends' online, hoping to meet more people.
This term means 'to grasp' or 'to control,' and in internet slang, it refers to someone skillfully managing a situation or conversation. It implies a sense of confidence and mastery in social interactions.
He can always grasp everyone's emotions at gatherings, and the atmosphere is great.
Translating to 'show off tricks' or 'act funny', this term describes someone who seeks to entertain others, often through humor or antics. It conveys a sense of playfulness.
He always likes to show off his tricks at gatherings; everyone loves him.
Literally meaning 'light-emitting body,' this term refers to individuals who are exceptionally bright or charming, often used to compliment someone’s magnetic personality or charisma.
She was truly a light-emitting body at the party, attracting everyone's attention.
This phrase translates to 'Good Guy' and ironically refers to someone perceived as overly nice or accommodating, often at the expense of their own needs. It's used both seriously and humorously.
He always tries to be a good guy, but it’s exhausting.
'撕心裂肺' means 'heart-rending' or describes a situation that causes extreme emotional pain or sorrow. It reflects a deep emotional response to tragic or overwhelming experiences.
The storyline of this movie is truly heart-rending; it moved me to tears.
Meaning 'to chase fiercely,' this term is often used in a dating context to describe someone who is actively pursuing a romantic interest with determination.
He is fiercely pursuing her, asking her out almost every day.
While the direct translation is 'nanny,' in internet slang, it refers to someone who is overly protective or takes care of others excessively. It can be used endearingly or as a joke.
Stop being so overprotective; let me do it myself!
Translating to 'dreamer,' this term refers to people who are idealistic and optimistic about their goals and aspirations. It can be used positively to encourage creativity and ambition.
Be a dreamer and bravely pursue your goals.
Meaning 'self-exile', this term refers to individuals who withdraw from society or certain social circles, often due to feeling overwhelmed or stressed. It reflects a desire for solitude in the face of societal pressu...
After months of self-exile, I finally decided to face life again.
Translating to 'little cutie,' this term is often used as an endearing way to refer to someone who is cute or lovable, whether it's a friend, pet, or romantic interest. It shows affection and warmth.
You are such a little cutie!
Translating to 'cat-person,' this term is used to describe someone who loves cats or identifies closely with cat-like characteristics, emphasizing independence and a laid-back attitude.
She is a typical cat-person, always enjoying her solitude.
Translating to 'meeting gift,' this term refers to small gifts or tokens exchanged when meeting someone for the first time. It's a gesture of goodwill and creates a positive atmosphere.
I've prepared some meeting gifts, looking forward to today's meeting.
Translating to 'beastly nature bursts forth,' this phrase is often used humorously to describe someone acting impulsively or passionately, especially in a romantic context. It reflects a humorous take on primal instin...
He’s really acting on his beastly nature today; he’s completely uncontrollable.
Translating to 'old man' or 'uncle,' this term is often used to refer to someone in authority or an experienced person, sometimes with a humorous or sarcastic tone.
This old man is truly a wise person.
Literally translates to 'little ginger.' It refers to a cute or young person, often used to describe someone who is charmingly naïve or innocent.
This little ginger is so cute; who wouldn’t like them?
This term means 'to throw away' or 'to dump,' and is often used in a relationship context when someone decides to break away from a partner. It can also suggest leaving something behind without care.
I've decided to dump this unreliable boyfriend.
Meaning 'showing off happiness', this slang phrase is used when someone shares pictures or stories about their happy moments, often on social media. It can convey genuine joy or sometimes be viewed as boastful.
She shows off her happiness on social media every day.
Translating to 'slightly chubby,' this term is a body-positive expression that celebrates curves without the stigma of being overweight. It reflects a more inclusive beauty standard in contemporary Chinese culture.
Her figure is slightly chubby and very charming.
This term translates to 'the arrangement is on', indicating that plans are confirmed and set into motion. It conveys a sense of readiness and excitement about upcoming events.
Tomorrow's gathering is all arranged; everyone get ready!
Translating to 'facial paralysis', this term humorously refers to someone who is unexpressive or emotionless, especially in situations that would typically elicit a reaction. It suggests a stoic or indifferent demeanor.
His emotionless face at the party made me helpless.
Literally 'walk the kidney,' this term humorously refers to relationships that are purely physical or based on lust rather than emotional connection. It is often used in dating discussions.
He only wants a physical relationship with me, and of course, I won't agree.
Literally meaning 'social master', this term describes someone who is very skilled at socializing and networking, often used in admiration for their charm and charisma.
She is a social master and knows many people.
This term translates to 'possessiveness' and describes a strong desire to control or keep someone close in a relationship. It often indicates an imbalance in emotional dynamics.
He has a bit of a possessive streak toward his girlfriend.
Translating to 'sweet blow', this term describes a sudden, unexpected act of kindness or affection that leaves one pleasantly surprised. It highlights the joy of little surprises in relationships.
A small gift from her gave me a pleasant surprise.
Translating to 'good fortune' or 'blessing,' this term is often used to express appreciation or happiness regarding fortunate situations or outcomes.
Having such good friends is truly a blessing.
Translating to 'little eyes,' this playful term is often used to describe someone who is very observant or cunning, often in a teasing or affectionate way. It's used in various social contexts, especially friendships.
You really have little eyes; you can notice everything.
Meaning 'dream chaser,' this term is used to describe someone who passionately pursues their dreams, often with a sense of optimism and determination. It’s used in contexts that celebrate ambition.
As a dream chaser, I work hard to achieve my goals.
Meaning 'self-comfort', this term is frequently used to describe the act of reassuring oneself in difficult or disappointing situations. It's often shared jokingly among friends who understand the struggles of modern ...
Even though work is tiring, I must engage in some self-comfort.
First marry, then love describes a modern perspective on relationships where marriage precedes emotional attachment. It reflects changing cultural norms around romance and commitment.
Our generation is increasingly accepting the model of marrying first and then developing love.
A cute, childish term that refers to a duck but is often used affectionately for friends or pets. It conveys a sense of endearment and playfulness.
My little duck is here again; so cute.
Meaning 'striving girl', this term refers to young women who are ambitious and dedicated to their careers or personal goals, often used to champion women's empowerment and independence.
She is a striving girl, working hard to pursue her dreams.
Literally meaning 'pretending to be single,' this phrase describes individuals who act as if they are single to attract attention or interest, often used humorously in dating contexts.
He always pretends to be single to attract people’s attention.
Translating to 'circle of friends', this term refers to a person's close social network or group of friends with whom they share personal matters. It emphasizes the importance of social connections and support.
I recently traveled with my circle of friends, and we had a great time.
This term means 'see off' and is used in a casual context to bid farewell to someone. It often carries a sense of melancholy or nostalgia, especially among friends and family.
Today I went to the station to see off my good friend.
Translating to 'pig girl,' this term is used affectionately to describe young women who are cute, slightly clumsy, but endearing. It reflects the idea of being carefree and not overly serious.
She is a pig girl and always smiles happily.
Literally meaning 'super like', this term is an enthusiastic way to express heightened affection or admiration towards something or someone. It conveys a strong positive feeling.
I really super like this song; I've been listening to it all day!
Translating to 'bulletproof,' this term is used to describe something that is critically acclaimed or highly resilient, especially in the context of defending one's preferences or opinions. It reflects a sense of unyi...
My idol is 'bulletproof'; no criticism can shake my support for him.
Meaning 'night tour', it refers to going out at night for leisure, often to explore nightlife or hang out with friends. It captures the energy of urban nightlife.
Let's go for a night tour this weekend; let's go eat supper together!
This term means 'acting spoiled' or 'being cutesy,' usually to elicit affection or favor from others. It's often used in playful contexts, especially in romantic relationships.
He always likes to act cutesy to make me soft-hearted.
Translating to ‘time flies like a shuttle’, this phrase reflects the feeling of time passing quickly, often used to express nostalgia or the rapid pace of life.
Time flies like a shuttle; I don’t even remember the last time I saw you.
Literally meaning 'stamp collection', this term has evolved to describe collecting experiences or relationships, often in reference to dating or social interactions. It humorously commodifies personal connections.
I'm collecting experiences; I recently made several new friends.
The one I am waiting for is a world-class hero — the iconic line spoken by Zixia the Fairy in A Chinese Odyssey, describing her ideal man who will arrive on a golden cloud riding a seven-colored cloud. Used online to ...
She has too many requirements — truly waiting for a world-class hero riding a seven-colored cloud.
Meaning 'to cut off decisively,' this phrase is used to refer to breaking off a relationship or ending a situation decisively without leaving room for ambiguity. It often expresses a sense of determination or finality.
The decisive break between us was the best decision I made.